My bf and I are not engaged but are going to get married sometime in the future. The question is when?! At first I was all excited because I wanted a nice yet cheap wedding which looks like about $7,000. Not cheap enough considering we have a kid and I need to go back to school. So I came up with the idea of doing an intimate close friends and family ceromony at a small chapel for about $1200 for everything. Welll If I'm married my husband will be part of my fafsa and other financial aid paperwork which means I wont get as much money as I would if I was 'single' GRRRR! I need to be smart but it has been my dream to get married in the year 2013. I just want to be his wife already! Help!