My FI and I are about a year out, and we're trying to narrow down all the vendors, put deposits down, etc. I'm finding it hard to figure out what's worth splurging on and where we can save money and probably not miss anything. We're not nailed into a specific budget but we're both pretty practical and dont want to go crazy and overspend. So...what do you ladies think is worth paying more for? The photographer, videographer...dj or venue...or food?