I have been engaged since December 24th of 2008. My parents request was that we wait until I graduate college to get married. I am graduating in May of 2012, so we plan on getting married in July of that year. Now they are saying I should wait until I have a job to get married. My FI will have one year left of school when we get married. Being a teacher, I won't get hired until about August. My mom said once I get a job we can plan the wedding in 3 months. I dont think this is doable. What do others think?