Hi Ladies,
I was just wondering if any of you felt "different" after the wedding? I'm only asking, because people are constantly asking me, "Does it feel different now that you're married?"
Considering my husband and I have been together nine years, helz no. Should it? Is it supposed to? Which got me to thinking that maybe it does feel different for some other brides.
Does it feel any different toYOU?
PS- When I say "husband", I feel like I'm playing house.
Re: Married Ones- Is It "Different" Once You're Married?
It does feel slightly different. Nothing major. The difference I feel is what you said at the end of your post
"When I say "husband", I feel like I'm playing house."
There is for sure a slight adjustment. We are the same people and the way we communicate is the same and we have been living together for a year and a half so no big surprises there and yet something feels a little different to both of us. We are both still getting used to the "wife" and "husband" titles and trying not to conform to what everyone says those titles are suppose to mean. It's an interesting time.
It doesn't feel any different for us with the exception that if we get pregnant now it's no big deal. Not that it would have been a big deal in the first place, but not ideal. But yes, the "husband" and "wife" titles will take some time to sound right.
Melissa, I started acting the same way too! I hardly ever cook, but just lately I've been cleaning up the kitchen, buying groceries, and planning what to eat. I guess it's good that I'm taking care of us. I'm sure my former fiance - "husband" [feeling weird again typing that word] is happy about it.