My FI and I have different views on who should be included on the ceremony program:
Situation: FI's mom passed away last October and we were both very close to her. His grandpa just passed away two weeks ago and he and my FI were pretty close too. We each now have one grandma left.
My thought for the program: Include FI's mom on the program under 'Parents of the Groom' since we were so close to her. Only include our remaining grandmas under 'Grandparents of the Bride/Groom'. I know it seems like a double standard to not include all grandparents, but it seems like it would be confusing to guests if they don't know which grandparents had passed away.
FI's thought for the program: Include his mom and all grandparents especially since he was closer to his grandpa than he and his dad are now.
Thanks for any input ladies!