So I haven't gotten any RSVP's yet since most people got their invites yesterday & today, but last night one of the groomsmen text FI:
GM (text) - Do I have to return the RSVP if I'm in the wedding?"
FI reads outloud and looks at me.
Me: "Yes - I want cards for everybody so I have an exact count in front of me"
FI: "He wants to know if he has to mail it back or if he can just give it to me at work"
Me: "Well there's an envelope with a stamp on it, so I'd like it mailed back so I know where it is"
FI texts GM - "You can give it to me - It'll be our secret"
GM texts back - "My wife says there's a stamp on it so I have to mail it - I guess we know who runs our houses"
LOL - I love it and his wife! Although it annoys me that people have questions with RSVPs. It's in an envelope with a stamp on it - just stick it in the mailbox! jeesh. Plus if he actually gave it to FI there's no telling where it would end up!