So my FI is not close wth his father at all for various reasons. (his dads not the most educated/decent person). I kind of have a chip on my shoulder about him, ever since FI told me all the horrible stories about him. I've seen him maybe three times in the past two years and he's always been fine with me but I just can't get all the stories out of my head and I find myself judging him.
Anyway, he told us yesterday that he wanted to bring his best friend and his best friends wife......he had already rsvped so I was kind of confused because we had put "and guest" and he replied that "2" people were coming. He said he didn't understand the invitation (lol) and he meant that HIM AND 2 GUESTS were coming with him. Omgggg!!! Sooo rude and ignorant. I pretty much flipped out becuse i thought about how the placeards were already printed and shipped and told my FI to tell him he can bring one guest, which was the original plan! His dad does not understand wedding ettiquette. I know I shouldn't be annoyed at someone's ignorance but I am. My parents wished I would have asked them first cuz they didn't think it was a big deal, we went back to him and said it was ok to bring the other guy but his dad isnt bringing anyone now ugh. Now parents are pissed off because it makes them look bad thy think since they are hosting wedding. A few people from his side of family will b there so it's not like he will be there alone .