I just found out that a good friend from college got married last weekend.
I knew he was engaged, and I really like his wife. I think they're great together and I'm really happy for them, but it makes me a little sad that I wasn't invited to the wedding. I didn't even know it was happening already. When I first saw the status change, I thought maybe they eloped, but from the pictures it looks like they had at least an average-sized wedding.
I haven't had much contact with him since college, to be fair, but I did count him among my best friends before we moved to different parts of the country. I still keep in touch with him through FB and stuff. I miss him, and I thought he missed me.
I feel like he's mad at me or something. I invited him and his now-wife to my wedding, and they didn't even RSVP. I found out through a mutual friend that they wouldn't make it. This, combined with the sneakattack (from my perspective) wedding makes me feel like he's mad at me or something.
I'm just going to leave a note saying "congratulations" on his wall and be done with it, but it's eating at my insides a little bit. Anybody have any perspective to share?