the only form you need to fill out is for DOT, and they have that at the building. what you need to do is: wait for your official, sealed marriage license to come in the mail. take that to the social security office and have your name changed. they will give you a temporary card. take the license and your temporary card to the DMV and get your drivers licensed changed.then for most things like work, banks, etc. you will need to wait for your official, hard copy SS card to come in the mail. make sure you change work and the bank and other credit cards to match your ID immediately and then just change bills as they come. normally there is a check box for name or address change.