Snarky Brides

Ask and ye shall receive

What do you want to know about knot history? 

I'll go first.  Who has Proud's cotton candy TTD session pics, and how many more times am I going to have to ask to see them?
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Re: Ask and ye shall receive

  • When did the format change and was it really bad enough to send a whole crew of sb'ers to TN?
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  • Whats a boardwar?

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    [QUOTE]When did the format change and was it really bad enough to send a whole crew of sb'ers to TN?
    Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]

    And to the extent this question doesn't cover it, what caused the separation of E and SB boards?
  • Is there really a ton of tension between E and SB posters? Any time I see E girls come over here, they're really well-received, and I've only seen less than a handful of SBers get picked on over there.  Is it just a few posters that poison the water for everyone?


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  • I came in post-drama, and I'm glad.  (That's the second time I've posted that today.)

    I post on E mostly, lurk here, and post randomly.  Every seems to be nice to me...
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Ask and ye shall receive : And to the extent this question doesn't cover it, what caused the separation of E and SB boards?
    Posted by TheCranberry[/QUOTE]

    I can only speak for myself, and I dont think my reasoning is the same as everyone elses. BUT, I left because a lot of my friends came here and I liked it here better. I had already been growing bored of E and some E posters and I said as much here in a thread and everyone from E who saw it got up in arms because i didnt name names and that dragged out for way too long. That was the starting point of the separation/boardwar for me.
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    [QUOTE]When did the format change and was it really bad enough to send a whole crew of sb'ers to TN?
    Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]

    Last November.  And it wasn't that bad (IMO).  A lot of knotties like the feature  where you get email notifications of replies to threads.  Some knotties access TK from their phones and I guess the new format isn't as phone friendly.  Given that i don't do either of those things, the new format only mildly bothered me. 
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    [QUOTE]When did the format change and was it really bad enough to send a whole crew of sb'ers to TN?
    Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]

    Last - what? November-ish? Sometime around then. Apparently they thought so. It was really bad for a while. Slow to load, <strong>lots </strong>of glitches; TN didn't switch. It took several weeks for it to straighten out. People used to have blue balls signifying how many posts they had, posting on all boards, and under all names (I think) and folks lost post counts (especially those with high ones).

    A lot of people switched to Firefox as a browser and that relieved some of the sting and kept people from leaving, but some left period for quite a while.
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  • What cause the board war?
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    [QUOTE]Is there really a ton of tension between E and SB posters? Any time I see E girls come over here, they're really well-received, and I've only seen less than a handful of SBers get picked on over there.  Is it just a few posters that poison the water for everyone?
    Posted by MandK9[/QUOTE]

    Im not really the right person to answer this since I became a regular right after the boardwar started, but I used to post here and E and once I became more of a sb poster, my posts on E became ill received over there by a handful of people.  I guess I was considered guilty by association.  It didnt happen often enough to be noticed by anyone but myself, but it was enough to make me stop posting over there.  And I had nothing to do with the boardwar.
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    DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
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    3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
    IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
    IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
  • Why did xoxob leave? What's the real story behind that?? I miss her.
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    [QUOTE]Is there really a ton of tension between E and SB posters? Any time I see E girls come over here, they're really well-received, and I've only seen less than a handful of SBers get picked on over there.  Is it just a few posters that poison the water for everyone?
    Posted by MandK9[/QUOTE]

    It comes and goes. An old topic will come up and things heat up and then die down. I don't have a real problem with most of the posters over there personally, but I have seen some really creepy/crappy stuff go down to some of my friends.

    The format changed was a HUGE pia because the knot ran extremely slow for a really long time.  Also, it lost many people's post counts which was so annoying.  In my opinion, the occupants of this board before us (now on the carribean in the nest) were kind of done with this board anyway since it had become just them as a group of friends posting a la off board style instead of many newbs venturing into their group. They have been blammed for this themselves because they supposedly never let people into their clique.
  • YES what WAS the real deal with XOXO.. I always wondered about that and had theories....

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    [QUOTE]Why did xoxob leave? What's the real story behind that?? I miss her.
    Posted by maratea[/QUOTE]

    She left because she was kind of newish and was made mod right in the middle of the boardwar. It was too much for her. I don't blame her at all.
  • I don't think you'll get a blanket type of explanation as to what happened with the split.  Those of us who used to post on E and no longer do each have our own reasons. 

    When the format first changed it was terrible.  It's slowly gotten better since.
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  • Whats a quadraboob?  Do I want one?  Can I buy one at walmart?

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    [QUOTE]Whats a boardwar?
    Posted by eastunder1[/QUOTE]


    There should really be an Urban Dictionary entry for boardwar. 
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    [QUOTE]I don't think you'll get a blanket type of explanation as to what happened with the split.  <strong>Those of us who used to post on E and no longer do each have our own reasons.</strong>  When the format first changed it was terrible.  It's slowly gotten better since.
    Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]

    exactly.
  • Does anyone remember ladybug?  She's still my all-time favorite AE.
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    Just call me "Brothel"
    And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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    [QUOTE]What do you want to know about knot history?  I'll go first.  Who has Proud's cotton candy TTD session pics, and how many more times am I going to have to ask to see them?
    Posted by marriedfilingjointly[/QUOTE]
    I HAD THOSE. somewhere. but now they're gone. dammit.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Ask and ye shall receive : And to the extent this question doesn't cover it, what caused the separation of E and SB boards?
    Posted by TheCranberry[/QUOTE]

    Initially this place was a wasteland after the old SBers ditched the board for TN.  Then it became the "whiney brides" board which made it a fun board to visit and set whiney brats straight.  Some E regs noticed what was going on and started posting here more frequently.  To my knowledge, there was no organized migration, although I think some E regs think it was organized and that they were "not invited" or whatever.  I don't know anyone who was "invited."  It just kind of happened. 
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  • I was curious about xoxo too.  Its too bad she didnt come back as just a poster.  She was a little puppies and rainbows at the time, but I liked her enthusiasm.  I think she would like the way the board has 'evolved'. (for lack of a better word).
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    5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
    3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
    IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
    IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
  • When did MrsE leave?  I see a bunch of posts about her and mostly it has to do with her craziness.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Ask and ye shall receive : It comes and goes. An old topic will come up and things heat up and then die down. I don't have a real problem with most of the posters over there personally, but I have seen some really creepy/crappy stuff go down to some of my friends. The format changed was a HUGE pia because the knot ran extremely slow for a really long time.  Also, it lost many people's post counts which was so annoying.  In my opinion, the occupants of this board before us (now on the carribean in the nest) were kind of done with this board anyway since it had become just them as a group of friends posting<strong> a la off board style instead of many newbs venturing into their group. They have been blammed for this themselves because they supposedly never let people into their clique.</strong>
    Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]


    I used to lurk on SB all of the time before they moved to TN. There was this one poster Monj-somethingorother that was so desperate to be a part of their clique and she made a complete ass out of herself trying to make them like her. It was pretty awesome.
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  • The format change was a really big deal at the time. The knot ran so slow some days that only 20 regular posters or so could get on (or had the patience for it). Fishy (a reg on E) almost quit over the change, because it was so, so different than what we were all used to AND it didn't work. I think it sort of pushed a "reset" button for some boards, because other posters were able to build up more of a presence while the site was down for others. The reg group afterward was a little different.

    I like this format much better, but I really miss the bubbles that told you who was online, and the ability to see all the threads you've posted in, and whether they'd been responded to or not. And I mean all in one tidy little list, not by going through all the BS here and then only seeing the most recent 10.



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    [QUOTE]In Response to Ask and ye shall receive : I HAD THOSE. somewhere. but now they're gone. dammit.
    Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]


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  • edited October 2010
    I think the problem with retelling history is that if you ask five different people, you'll get five different versions of what went down.  I left because the people who made the majority of the posts on E got on my nerves.  Its that simple.  For others, it was a lot more complicated than that. There isn't just one answer.

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  • AnysunriseAnysunrise member
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    edited October 2010
    What was the pre-change over (format wise) like?

    Was MrsE crazy pre-format change, or did I find the best of it? What was she banned for (namely, all the posts I see by her are on Mrs_AE, and she posted about being banned)?

    Snowsweetie81 was the one with the b-pics in her sig, right? Were they really that bad?

    What was the deal with....callingkarma? No. Yes? Karma something, and the whole Mrs.B getting banned.

    That's all I can think of right now.
  • Star - I answered back on page one, but the whole thing with xoxox leaving was a lot less drama filled then people suspect. She really just didn't like the knot as much as she thought she did when the boardwar went down on her watch. It just wasn't for her. She liked a ton of people here, though.
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    [QUOTE]What was the pre-change over (format wise) like? Was MrsE crazy pre-format change, or did I find the best of it? What was she banned for (namely, all the posts I see by her are on Mrs_AE, and she posted about being banned)? Snowsweetie81 was the one with the b-pics in her sig, right? Were they really that bad? What was the deal with....callingkarma? No. Yes? Karma something, and the whole Mrs.B getting banned. That's all I can think of right now.
    Posted by Anysunrise[/QUOTE]

    MrsE was a nutbar forever and always. Format had nothing to do with it. I don;t think she was banned, I think she just GBCK.

    Snowsweetie - wasn't that Whit?
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