Do any of you remember the invite I posted a few months ago with the heart sticker? We had a good laugh

Well, the weekend is finally here! Last night was the "Bachelor Party" (I use the term loosely because it was basically just our circle of friends minus the bride) And this wedding is going to be awesome, and by awesome I mean interesting and probably weird.
Last night I picked up Groom's brother at the airport and apprently bride isn't shy, she's just a bitch. Not only is the wedding outside, in IL at 5 pm, but the poor groomsmen have to wear black suits. Its suppose to be in the upper 80s, I hope no one dies. When brother mentioned to her some other options (khakis and ties, or even light suits, she freaked out)
She didn't want a DJ because that would be too formal for the reception (DJs are formal?) so they are plugging in a Zune, with a playlist she made, and its all country. No variety, and its not like you can request a song if you want to hear it. And if I understood correctly from the MOG, the music is inside, so I'm not sure what will happen outside for the ceremony. I also want to note, ipod receptions can be okay, IMO, if someone is watching the music player. Don't just leave it and hope for the best.
Also, we are eating kabobs, and I think someone they know is grilling them at the park. This makes me nervous because I like to know who is cooking my food. Its not like a restaurant where everything is clean and sanitary, we're outdoors, at a park. Which, I guess its good they are feeding us. Originally she didn't want any food or music or anything. I guess, just cake and small talk?
Needless to say, it might be an early night. All my friends are crashing at our place, so that will be fun.
Do I sound incredibly judgy? This whole wedding is just freaking me out.