Hump Day Confessions

courtneybrooke921 · February 2010

1. I got a lower performance rating then I wanted this year - I just got my review. She said the last 4 months of the year I improved greatly but that the reviews are done in September so it didn't reflect it. I still got a raise and bonus so that's all that matters, lol.

2. I have 66 days until the wedding. If time was flying before -- now its ZOOMING!!

3. I want new windows. I'm using my bonus to buy us new windows. That's not a confession, rather a statement.

4. Even though we bought our house in Nov 2008 I think were going to move again with the next 1-2 years into a bigger house... this is beyond exciting.

5. I want a Nissan Rogue - I'm obsessed. But I feel bad getting a small SUV because of the environment. BUT - it gets the same gas as a large sedan so I don't feel too guilty. And everyone says it's so much easier to have a baby in an SUV rather then a car. Uh.

6. One of my best friends from growing up isn't coming to the wedding - we had a falling out a few years back and have gone in different directions. I didn't make her a bridesmaid and i felt guilty. Now she's not coming because she couldn't get her money shiit together - I don't feel guilty anymore.

7. I can't wait to start trying for a baby -however, going off the pill has given me the most annoying side effects - I broke out, I'm spotting and I have the worst cramps (sorry if TMI).

8. i can't believe one of my favorite knotties is getting married on Saturday!!!!!!!

Alissa

MIABRIDENTAMPA · February 2010

Court- Our confessions are a bit similar as you will see below.. BTW Court when we went to ATL for Thanksgiving we rented a Nissan Murano, you will loveeee the Rogue.

I confess I went car shopping on Monday, AFTER Joey explicitly said I can not get a new car until after the wedding. I test drove an 08 Maxima and I am in LOVE. So I called him while I was on the car lot and told him about it, and he was like how much will your payments be, I was surprised thinking he would go off, but I guess the V-day loving was still on his brain.lol.

I confess my dress is here, I have to pick her up saturday, I am very nervous. I havent lost my last 17lbs. I need these 17lbs to fall off, I need crack or something legal that works like it. J/K lol

I confess that I have the worlds worst cramps today and had total melt down road rage this morning.

I confess that even though I love my promotion and raise, I am not loving my boss saying I wont see the light of day for 3 months because of the work that it entails.

I confess my little sister is turning in to a demonized sex crazed 16 yr old. My poor mom is at her wits end, I have tried talking to her to no avail. She wants a baby BAD. WTF where they do that at? This girl just doesnt understand real life, to be so book smart, her street smarts are lacking, not sure she is really my sister.

I confess everyday I wake up a little earlier than Joey just to gaze at him in amazement that I have been blessed with such a good man, considering all the douches that came along before him. Ok confessions DONE.

twinkle82576 · February 2010

Court: Yay for your raise and bonus! My job does no such things. I have to beg to get a raise

Also, I loveee the Nissan Rogue. I have a Nissan Versa, and the Rogue is like the bigger version of my car. I want it in a bad, bad way. But I just can't justify a new car when mine is just two years old. But you should get it!!!

Kaila: GL with your little sister. My sister went through a stupid phase a few years ago and I couldn't stand it.

My Confession... there's only one:

1) I still haven't signed the contract or put the deposit on the venue. And I haven't even contacted the event coordinator at the venue. That's not even the confession part. I went house hunting with FI this weekend and fell in love. What's the catch? In order to afford the house I want I have to nix the wedding. I'm giving it serious thought. I want the McMansion. I'm so torn on what to do.

courtneybrooke921 · February 2010

Kaila!! I almost died laughing when you said you want crack -- hang in there and don't worry about those 17 pounds. You'll look amazing and you'll lose it by the wedding if needed!! As for your sister -- tell her to relax!! No babies! EEEEK!

Steph -- I have a versa too!!! So fun!! I love it but I reaaaaally love the Rogue!!! I'm going to get it. F it. hahaha. But my lease isn't up for another year so I have to wait. blah. BTW - maybe have a smaller destination wedding and get the house of your dreams??

twinkle82576 · February 2010

Court: My Versa twin! Yay. I didn't know of anyone else who has it! I love my car. Anywho, FI and I have talked about it, and we both love the venue so much and want to move forward with it, but a house is so important to us. But you're right, maybe a small DW. Ugh, this is so stressful. I feel like every week I'm jumping around and can't make up my mind.

adrielegorburu · February 2010

I Confess that I took the day off of work with the complete intent to plan THE REST OF MY WEDDING! Yep - I'm talking today.... everything. Or at least everything I can do.

I confess that I'm going to go get my dress today. They called and said if I dont come get it - they will send it back. So Kaila I feel you! I dont want to go.....

and I confess that that I'm spending money that we dont have....yet....

JillianLL · February 2010

Court - congrats on the raise and promotion!!!

Kaila - girl you can lose those last 17lbs. You've got time and you're going to look smooooookin hot!

Steph - the right answers will come to you. Just give it time and everything will work itself out. Best of luck hun!

Ok my confessions:

- My hair has always been thin, but I feel its been getting thinner. My doc ordered me to get some blood tests. I am so nervous. On the one hand, I'll be relieved to know if there is a problem so I can fix it. But on the other hand, I hope I just have thin hair. My mom had a hormone deficiency so thats why I'm slightly buggin.

- I talked to my doctor about getting off BC....bye bye BC in July!! I CANNOT wait to have babykins, but I do want some downtime after the wedding.

-That being said, we have a wedding May 2011in North Carolina and I would rather not be 9 months pregnant so I am thinking I might wait just 2 months longer to get preggo.

- I feel a lot calmer than I thought I would with less than 60 days to go. Scott and I have been so good about getting a lot of things done early. We're getting our marriage license on Friday!!

-I am sooooooo excited for Alissa's wedding!!!! Like want it to be here now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TtotheG · February 2010

Kaila! Tell your sister babies come with time! She needs to enjoy her youth to it's fullest! Babies are selfish little buggers who do nothing but poop, eat & cry! :x Lol. & your confession about FI is too sweet!

Court... FI and I are going to go SUV shopping next year

I

my sedan, but I want a Hyundai Veracruz really FREAKING bad. Lol. And YAY for babies!!

LOL. Those paragraphers are total contradictions.

it.

I confess...

I'm at 7 months. In one month I'll be at 6 months. WTF?

I'm secretly freaking out on time because I feel so far away from my planning. I feel like I have SO much to do and SO little time.

I can't for the life of me give up coffee. I'm going to try to give it up for Lent. We'll see how that works. Lol.

I've been craving a donut for three weeks.

lyndopo · February 2010

- I called out of work sick today when I COULD'VE gone in. I am slighty sick but not enough to justify not going in. I just feel like being lazy today. I wanna lounge around and admire my big a$$ tv we just bought.

- We're contemplating not taking a honeymoon so we can buy a house instead. Italy will just have to wait.

- I have nothing else interesting going on.

The Baby72 · February 2010

Court- Congrants on you promotion & bonus.
Kaila- Dont worry girl you got time and you will look amazing!!!!
Tess _ Im in the same boat, almost @ 6 months and soo much to do...

I confess.....
1) I dont want I NEED a new car. My transmission is going to cost almost 1K. I wish I would off traded it during the cash 4 clunckers.
2) I feel soo far behind on wedding planning that it makes me cry sometimes.
3) I've been SOOOO worried w/ $$$$, wedding, car, and work that I have a headache EVERYDAY and I CAN"T sleep.
4) I feel terrible for lying to FI this morning. he ask if I actually sleept and I said yes... but the truth I've been up since 3am.

geri...

goldie3474 · February 2010

that I am so excited for my RD and seeing my family tomorrow that I literally CANNOT STAND IT! I feel like I might burst!!!!!

and that I am so sad that I wrote my last post. I love the knot, the knotties and so sad it's over

atizon · February 2010

Court: congrats on your raise and bonus.

Kaila: you still have time to lose 17 pds...your going to look great!!

All the knotties talking about BC FI and want to have a bun in the oven by the end of the year

I just can't wait!!!!

confessions:

I missed work yesterday bcuz I was still tired from my bridal shower & had a stomach virus..but ended up working at night at fat Tuesday mardi gra for extra wedding $$$.

was going to give up something for lent but just cant the wedding is in the 40 days of lent so it's to hard.

wish I can be home right now cuddled up with FI it's to damn cold for me.

and most important I need to get back into wedding planning mode. the bridal shower sucked everything out of me.. I need to focus and get on track.

YHFoxtrot · February 2010

I confess that...

It's really annoying and obnoxious that certain people lurk on this board but never post and then steal ideas from the girls here...

That I'm insanely excited for my Lissy Pocket!

That I've easily put on 10lbs since my wedding and it's killing me but I'm really enjoying getting to eat whatever I want after so many months of dieting

That I am ready to throw in the towel on packing and just say f -it. I'd rather have a root canal than pack. for some reason it's like the total bain of my existence.

I am holding off on vendor reviews partly b/c I can't type for crap w/ these nails (lol) and also b/c I have some issues w/ some of my vendors that I'm trying to sort out!

That I'm excited for Alissa. Oh wait, I said that already. Whatever. Sue me.

FutureMrsFezz · February 2010

Jaime - I'm not sure who you're talking about lurker-wise. But I find myself laughing because while going through my google reader I stumble upon posts that clearly are brides that lurked, but never posted. The vendors, the ideas... it's quite humorous.

TheJennius · February 2010

LOL @ Kaila and crack! Lady, you are HOT. Serious. I only say it when I mean it, and you are hawt. 17 lbs will be easy for you, you'll see!

Tess, I love you lol.

Jill, I'll keep a prayer for you, hopefully your hair's no sign of anything bad!

Alissa POPPEH, it is NOT over. *holds on* EEEEEEEE

Okay, my confessions:

1. I feel very behind in planning. Flowers, linens, BM dresses, FG & RB outfits, invites, SO MUCH TO DO! Rah.

2. I wouldn't feel safe going in to my first floral appt. without Alissa & Ursula. I feel like I'm taking mommy and daddy to my first day of school. I'm a nerd :B

3. I am seriously, seriously considering hiring a DOC, let's see how the Breakers delivers till June.

4. I cannot believe Craig is turning 21 in June. I'm such a shameless cougar.

millenia98 · February 2010

Oh man. We, as April brides are REALLY getting down to the wire. There are so many loose ends that I need to tie!

My confessions is that I'm very concentrated on money and I'm on it like white on rice!

sambrefe67 · February 2010

girls this confessions are great and set my mind at ease....

Jen - i love that you think your a cougar who cares...you love him n he loves you!!!
Jaimers - arent we allowed to gain weight after were married?!

Kalia - i wish crack was unaddictive and legal so i could loose weight quick! LOLOLOL

My confession:

1. I ordered my flameless tea light and they came in...FI reaction was not as I would like and I got very upset. I wish he would be more open minded and help me with the planning, even though I know that is unlikely

2. I hear everyone talk about babies and how they want them...I cring...the thought of having children makes me very nervous...Not sure if I want them FI does so Im going to have to suck it up and have atleast one...and IM sure once I do I will fall in love and be so happy I chose to but as of now I am too selfish and not sure I want them.

3.The fact my parents arent really helping out with the wedding irritates me...They knew this day would come sometime soon I mean we've been together for 4 yrs!

4. I LOVE WEDDNG PLANNING...except I feel i neglected FI i sent on the knot and search wedding stuff and i can be glued to the comp for hours...he says he doesnt mind but hes seriously and intimate person so i know it has to bother him..

5.IM SO SUPER EXCITED TO SEE PICS FROM LIS'S WEDDING!!!!!

michy22 · February 2010

Court- I drive a 09 Rogue and its a GOOD car but I downsized from a Murano... The Murano is AMAZING, it is the most comfortable car EVER!!! I cant wait for my lease to be up so I can get it again... The gas is great in both cars...

Jilly-We probably have the same thin hair, I use a shampoo for the scalp called Nioxin, they sell it at Sallys and Supert Cuts (maybe hair cuttery too) it is awesome it noorishes the scalp so I constantly have new hairs growing and it helps with thin hair... either way I am seriously thinking of clip in extensions for the wedding.

Steph- your in a pickle... but honestly babe get the house you can always have a VERY classy, small, elegant wedding... I seriously wish I did a 15-20person wedding on a weekday but at some AMAZING place.... I probably would have done it for less than $5000. My florist did one in Miami and it looks awesome, I can send you the link if you want to see it.

Kaila- sorry hunny but your sis is CRAZY!!!! 16 is still a baby to want kids, she should meet my FI's ex wife she bamboozled my fi to get her prego at 16 so she could get out of the house, and now we have SOOOOO much drama with that woman becuase of the child... no one can live a happy peaceful life. We literally have a countdown till FI's son turns 18.

ok now my confessions...

ok you know when someone throws a ball at you and you miss it so you run after it but it keeps rolling away... you almost feel helpless like you will never catch it... WELL thats how I feel about how close I am to my wedding... I feel there is still soooo much to do and I will never catch up because I literally HAVE NO TIME!!!! as it is I wake up at 4:15 to work out then run to work and run to everything I have to do until 10 when I drop dead...

and its official my invites are out to get me... I have been working on them for over a month... I mean hello my wedding is 2 months away and I havent mailed them out yet because they are not ASSEMBLED!!! urgh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I HATE invites... If I could re-do anything of my wedding I would have ordered invites the day I got engaged and that would have been the end of that!

anyway ladies... have a wonderful day... I will be checking post later tonight..

oHHH BTW- I am a bronze knottie!!! woohoo finally lost my New Knottie medal... lol

JillianLL · February 2010

Thanks Michy!! I may try that shampoo! I am not using extenstions, but I am using a fake hair piece (not one of those cheapy fakes) for my bun. I wont even bother to wear my hair down for the wedding.

Dont worry sweetie, everything WILL come together! It always does. Stop and take a breath, regroup, and then get back on track. You'll be fine! We're all here to help!

LAKE21 · February 2010

I confess....

1. I'm a total mess right now. Between planning the wedding and my FI telling me I should look for a job I feel like I'm going to have an anxiety attack. I know that sounds silly, but I don't have my degree yet and I refuse to take a crappy job where I don't get paid enough to pay for daycare. It would defeat the purpose of working.

2. I secretly want to cancel my wedding and get married at the courthouse.

Kaila- I don't know what you've told you're sister but as a mother I can tell you it's not a piece of cake. It seems to me that a lot of teens think that having a baby is a great accessorie and it couldn't be farther from the truth. Having a child is not glamorous. It's hard and tiring work. And it is 24/7. I know when I was trying to prepare myself before my son was born, I though I understood how it would be, but I had no idea. It was a big adjustment.

Court - Hopefully your body will level itself out soon. But yay for making babies in the future! I wish you Baby and Sticky dust when you need it!

zobo410 · February 2010

I know exactly the wedding you are speaking of Jaime because I saw it in my google reader today and was trying to figure out the face and realized... she doesn't post!!!!!!!! BIATCH!

Lacey36 · February 2010

wow, i forgot all about confessions, i must of missed this post. well to first mention the google reader too, so funny you all mention it because I went back and double checked her vendors and was like hmm fishy, they are knottie vendors and then i realized the name does NOT sound familar lol. Why is it hard to say Hi, we are all so friendly and helpful, dont just steal our ideas.

Court-yay for a bigger house, and new car. im dying for an suv, better yet to go back home and just drive a car that works haha.

Kaila-your hilarious! I wish there was some sort of weight loss crack haha. yay for the dress, cant wait to hear about it.

adrielegorburu - yay for your dress too!! your getting close!

ALISSA-im sooo happy your wedding is here, i cant wait to see how it all turns out!! xo

Jillian-yay for getting BC soon and wow your getting closer too!! ahh. as for the hair hope it all works out.

Jaime-I feel you on packing haha, i hate it. in fact I have to sell things out here b4 we move and ive been slacking! oh same with the lurkers!! ugh

Jen-lol your so cute about the cougar thing.

Christina-i feel you on focusing on money and all.

Michy-good for you things are getting done your getting so close too!!

Ashley-hang in there girl, it can get stressful we all know, but in the end it will be perfect.

i confess.

Im back on day 2 of P90X, im trying to stick to the workout regimen for 90 days and hope to see improvement.

ive been extremly lazy and tired.

i wish i had a car so i can just go to the stores and buy what i need or want for the wedding.

im trying to find a cute white dress for my BS and purple one for my RD any suggestions? im stuck.

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