I love my soon to be mother in-law but she is driving me nuts regarding things to do with the gues list! We are limited on space and things are pretty equal across the board when it comes to the guest but she is insisting that we invite people she works with (that we have never met) and her 3rd and 4th cousins (also never met). I feel like I have been rather accomodating to her "List" but where does it stop! I can't ask my parents to continue to pay for people when we don't even have the room for them. She keeps saying things like well your cousins are going to be there... yeah my cousins (1st cousins and 1 of which is my MOH). How is it fair for her to say that when we are talking bride's 1st cousins and FMIL 3rd & 4th cousins? UGH, I guess I am just frustrated! My fiance's sister warned me in the beginning not to let her anywhere near anything b/c she would totally ruin my day as she did her's, but how do I tell her enough is enough!
Not to mention I have taken her dress shopping now 3 different times and she has yet to decide on a dress too. Everywhere that we went told her that a dress would need to be ordered and she would be limited as our wedding is less than 4mths away!
I just don't know what to do... any advice?