Hello ladies,
Here is the situation, 8 of my neighbors and their husbands are invited to the wedding, of them, 6 have RSVP'd yes, 1 no, and 1 I haven't heard ANYTHING from, and the RSVP deadline was yesterday.
We are sending out invites for a shower/night out, kind of bachelorette party. I will obviously be inviting all 6 neighbor ladies (all close friends) but I am wondering if it is tacky to invite the one who said no and the one who said nothing? They are both part of the "group" and I am worried about upset feelings if all of us meet up for a limo bus on the block right in front of their windows and they aren't invited. But I am also worried that it seems gift-grabby to invite them maybe? I suppose they probably have other obligations or couldn't find a babysitter for the actual wedding, but maybe the shower will fall on a date they can attend.
This is really last minute, my MOH told me invites need to go out tomorrow, so please let me know if you think I should send her those 2 addresses as well?
Thank you!!