My Sweetheart and I will both be 46 on our wedding day in February 2013. It will be a first marriage for both. We have opted to have a mixture of traditional + non traditional inclusions.For one I will not toss the bouquet as this practice has always caused my anxiety + I am never liked to see woman scrambling on the floor for flowers. Instead the bouquet will be given away via a raffle but then again I am not 100% SURE that I am ill to part with my handmade bouquet. Also there will not be the usual removal of the garter especially since I have no interest in harassing my thighs by wearing one.Nor will we do the tossing of the garter. In my experience some little 8 year old usually catches the garter. We would like to give the garter away but have not decided on how to select a recipient. I am open to suggestions.The response from people have been more then jubilant. Except my best friends mom says I should not wear white or a gown of any sort. Maybe I will opt to wear my Run-D MC sweat suite with matching furry Kangol and Addidas.