Okay so I'm going to make this as short and sweet as possible.
So I thought the idea of my bridesmaids wearing make-up would be a great idea (why wouldn't you want to wear make-up to a wedding anyways, anywho) Well I told the girls already that I wanted to have them do there make-up it can be light or however they wanted. Well, my sister (just has to be the difficult one) says "I don't like wearing make-up". Now before anyone is like really this is over make-up, let me back up the story. My sister is 31 and hasn't had the greatest life... and still doesn't have her life together. I've been there for my sister from day 1, for her and her daughter. I've given her money for things whenever it has been needed etc, I think most people get the gist of what I'm trying to say. Well she wears make-up every now and then so she can't say she doesn't like wearing it. I argued with her about it and got so frustrated I just ended the convo about it with her. I feel like after everything I've done for her, and she can't wear some make-up for a few hours for her LITTLE sister's wedding day?! I don't think it's very fair.. but I feel at the same time I'm being a "bridezilla". My sister and I aren't on the greatest terms, never have really been. So in other words she's lucky I picked her to be in the wedding. I'm paying for her daughter's entire attire wear for the day.. and yet still doesn't want to wear the make-up...
I had to get this off my chest, my MOH/best friend, our mother, and a few other ladies I've discussed this with (who know the whole story about my sister and I's relationship) agree with me..
This is so frustrating..
