HI. I am getting married in June and it's my second marriage, first wedding. We are doing this very cheap and very simple. We are having the ceremony and reception at our church, so there will be no alchohol. Here's my question: It has been suggested that we cook a few hams and then on our invitations write "in lieu of a gift, please bring a side dish." Does this seem tacky to ya'll? We are going to have about 50 people attending. I also have a question as far as the reception room, does the cake go on it's own table? I am planning on a meal, a bride/groom dance, father/daughter dance and then leave. Thanks so much!!
Dawn