It's time to begin wrangling with a few caterers. We're from brooklyn, but doing our food southern style, meaning food stations (the reception folks liked to tout this as the way we do...and i like it), not a plated dinner. What can I expect to pay per head for appetizers and food in NO? (not including alcohol or cake). When you share the cost, please let me know if your figure includes service from the caterer. The more information you can provide, the better!