Your "happy monday" vent absolutely defined how I have been feeling about my BMs throughout the wedding planning process. Ugh. I hate sounding needy/unappreciate of my girl/whiny, but a LITTLE more support/interest/offers to help/etc. would be awesome at this point!!
One of my BMs (FSIL) never even wrote back to the email about how to order dresses. I only found out that she ordered from FMIL.
No one writes back to my emails or cares about wedding details.
Sigh. At least I know you understand.