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Ok, now I'm sad

After much good news - the airport is receiving some flights, LAN airline specifically says on its website that it has contingency plans - my godmother just e-mailed to say their flights were cancelled, and they're not coming. She said her daughter's flight on American was also cancelled, which means my MOH is most likely not coming either since she's also flying American (other BMs are on Copa which says it's all systems go starting tomorrow). They could fly to Buenos Aires and then to Mendoza and drive/take a bus (another 6 hours), but I understand why that's not exactly the most attractive option. I don't really understand why/how LAN specifically says that they will be operating flights with different routes - they have to stop in other Chilean cities first to do customs and immigration - and yet has cancelled this flight. American doesn't surprise me, they have no info on their website except to say that people can reschedule without rebooking fees.

I honestly this whole time haven't thought they wouldn't be able to come. All news was making it seem like by Thursday we'd be cutting it close but ok. And now of 8 international guests, 3 are confirmed not coming, and I can only imagine MOH isn't as well.

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  • :(  I'm sorry.  That blows.  Hopefully something will work out but that's a real bummer.  I know it's hard to stay positive.  

    I will say this: As you know, I basically didn't have a MOH.  She might have been there physically and fulfilled her obligations but it was like not having one.  I was really ready to tear my hair out (though I know this is not at ALL comparable to the stress you're under so please don't think I'm minimizing it).  But as soon as I saw DH on our wedding day, any and all anger or angst or sadness I had truly did melt away and no force on heaven or earth could have upset me after that.  I'm hopeful the same thing will happen for you.  
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  • I'm sorry, Emily. That sucks. But you know that she'd be there if they would let her. 
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_ok-now-im-sad?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:06b22252-30c2-494b-b09b-9f586fca37f4Post:be28301b-670a-499b-a53a-e63f03850b36">Re: Ok, now I'm sad</a>:
    [QUOTE]That sucks!  Maybe she'll be able to switch to another airline?
    Posted by aerinpegadrak[/QUOTE]

    No, they're pretty definitively not coming - they said in the e-mail that we'll have to celebrate another time. Even if they wanted to scramble to find something last minute, basically all the flights to come here are sold out anyway, with so many people having been stuck for the past few days and it being the end of summer here (schools were supposed to start yesterday, so there are a lot of people who were planning to come back to Santiago over the weekend).
  • I'm sorry, hon :(
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  • Aww, I'm sorry Emily  :(  Hopefully she can figure something out, but if she doesn't, at least you know there were definitely adverse circumstances...just remember at the end of the day that you will be marrying your FI :)
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  • You know, even though it could be so much worse given what is going on down there it still sucks.  While I'm glad you are safe I'm sorry it is effecting your day. 
  • I'm so sorry Emily! That really really sucks big time. Its ok to be sad, of course, but in the end, the important stuff will happen, and you can relive the moments, telling the stories when you see those people again. I know its not much consolation, but I'm happy your dad got there in time.
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  • Oh yes, if my dad weren't here I'd freak out.

    And now we have to leave our offices because apparently people are starting to loot in downtown Santiago. FI is coming to get me. Today is a GREAT DAY.
  • I'm sorry...There isn't a possibility you could scrabble together a live webcam for the wedding for your grandmother is there? She wouldn't be there but at least she could see it???

    Holy cow! I just put two and two together that you and the earthquake were in Chile. Hang in there and be safe!
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  • Oh no.  I'm so sorry to hear this.  I hope everything turns out ok and you don't get caught up in all the looting.  Be safe!
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  • I'm so sorry!  What a mess, and what crappy freakin' timing.  I'm sure they're upset they can't be there too.  Hell, I don't even know you and I'm sitting here upset on your behalf!
  • Sorry, Em.  It's just amazing how quickly life changes, isn't it?  Go enjoy a glass of wine and allow yourself the rest of the day to just be sad.  It's okay to do that, too.
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