Okayyy, when I first planned my wedding, I wanted short bm dresses, then my mom told me long dresses would be more formal, and so it was decided...but now I'm struggling because I think I like the way short looks better. What would you do? They will be black and I like the look of satin. It is a formal wedding, at St. Joseph's Church on Tulane, followed by a reception at Southern Oaks. It is in November. It is a formal wedding but we're really an informal couple and I wanted to pick something the girls could wear again. I know I have a lot of time, but I'm super busy because of full time work and grad school, and I just want this to be decided on. I asked my bms and they are too sweet and just say "it's whatever you want because it's your day!" One has told me she would like short. What would you guys do??? Thanks so much