I am the MOB and was wondering if someone could help me out? My FSIL is not on very good terms with his mother right now and hasn't been for quite some time. His parents have been divorced since he was very young and he was raised by his father. He really doesn't want to do a Mother/Son dance at the reception. I can completely understand his feelings but am also concerned about future ramifications of his decision. Should I gently encourage him to dance with his mother or just let things be? I could care less either way but don't want him to regret the decision later in life if they do reconcile.