Last question I promise! I just keeping thinking of new things that I need help with!
The problem is the church holds about 100 less than the reception hall....my parents believe that we need to cut down the list of people because because people can not only be invited to the reception. They must be invited to both or it looks very poor.
Is this true? Honestly, I would not be offended if I was only invited to a reception because it is understood that there can only be so many people at the church, but I do not know what other people think of this.
Would it be bad etiquette to invite the people who have not been a huge part of my life (my parent's old time friends and 3rd+ on cousins (again only have seen these people maybe once or twice in my life) to only the reception?