I'm getting married at Astors' Beechwood in RI and the ballroom has a lot of gold and the chairs that are provided are gold chiavari. My main color is graphite-the BMs are wearing this color. My accent color is a medium purple-the flowers, my shoes, and sash. So, my predicament is what color to have my linens. I have a gold/silver clashing issue. I'm wondering if the graphite linens would look terrible with the gold chairs or is that just my own issue? Should I go with purple linens? Or maybe ivory linens with graphite or purple napkins? I just feel like colored linens really add a lot to the decor, but the whole gold/silver thing is bothering me and I can't find any photos of graphite linens and gold chairs so I can at least see what they look like together.Any opinions or suggestions?! Thanks ladies!