So after the posts about days off before the wedding and for the HM it got me thinking about getting my request in. My boss seems to think my life should revolve around my job and news flash, it doesn't.
So today I put in my request for the two days before the wedding 3/8 & 3/9 as well as the HM! So glad to have that off my back and done!
Also FI got his on-call schedule for next year and I was relieved to hear he wasn't on there at all for the month of March, which makes life easier!