A junior high classmate of mine has asked several times (all via Facebook) when my wedding is so she can be sure to work out coming from UT to IL for it. She is not actually on the guest list, and I don't know how to tell her that. I went to her reception last year (one of several 200+ guest receptions), but my FI and I are paying for everything and have 100 people to invite just from our families. We simply don't have the room in our venue or budget to "just go ahead and add one more". How do I tell her she isn't invited when I haven't actually spoken to her since congratulating her at her own wedding a year ago?