Ok, so a little bit of a back story. FMIL bends over backwards for everything and doesn't take no for an answer much. She is graciously hosting a shower for me and our rehearsal dinner. She was making arrangements for FI's two brothers' families to stay in a hotel for the wedding weekend. Great! We were really hoping that she wouldn't be hosting everyone at her house the night before so she wouldn't be super stressed. We were even going to pay for their rooms. She has also tried to plan several aspects of our wedding around her 4 grandchildren, including wanting to have the RD at the hotel at first so the kids could all swim during it (don't ask). Fwiw, she sees both children quite often, babysitting one family every week.
FMIL told FI that she wants to have the 2 eldest grandchildren stay with her that night before the wedding(4&5). FI and I both don't want her to have gma duties that night because we think she will be stressed and that will only add to it. I have drafted up an email to my FSILs inquiring about whether the kids could stay with them that Friday night for the reasons above.
Now my question is whether this is bordering bridezilla level? Is this a request that is too far??
