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STAY AWAY from Le Club Avenue :Long Branch NJ:

Basically, my wedding night was ruined thanks to the bouncers at the oh-so-pretentious Le Club Avenue. This place operates as if they are a celebrity ridden club in South Beach Miami  that only the rich and famous attend. First, I requested a new event coordinator because the first guy, Neil, acted as if I was bothering him when asking him to do his job. My day finally comes, I get to the bridal suite which is a room with a huge TV and a 1'x2' mirror that is just sitting on the floor. They wouldn't let my husband upstairs to take photos before the ceremony because they were still getting things ready and then they realized that he was the groom and finally let him up. 

During the party, just about all of my guests were interrupted by bouncers for one reason or another. Yes, bouncers were at my wedding that I did not request. My 16 year old cousin was threatened with being kicked out because he was drinking soda that they insisted had alcohol in it. Even when he would get new soda from the bartender, they were still up his butt threatening him. My friends and I were taking a picture by the pool and they kicked us out of that area. 

The place turns into a club @ 10pm and they rushed all of the guests that werent staying out of the building as if there was a fire. Those of us who did stay to party longer got locked out on the deck while they had a staff meeting by the bar. Then they kicked us out of the seats by the fireplace because someone reserved those seats, yet we didnt see anyone there for hours. Thats not even the half of it. 

Here's the worst part...my husband was feeling sick, so his cousin took him to the bathroom. The door was then kicked open, and 4 bouncers rush in, 2 on each of them. Both of them were in a choke-hold, and had another guy holding their feet. They were carried downstairs, all while losing consciousness thanks to the strangulation, and literally thrown out onto the boardwalk. The bouncers' reasoning was that they were in the bathroom for too long. Both my husband and his cousin have bumps, bruises, and abrasions all over, especially on their necks. I can't even imagine what would have happened if they actually did something wrong. 

So today we went and filed a police report where we were told this is a frequent problem that the Long Branch PD has heard of. They advised us to contact the detective bureau and give them the names of the bouncers. I'm trying to post my experience everywhere possible as I would hate for this to happen again. My friends and family are good people and do not deserve this type of treatment. No one deserves to be assaulted when they're not hurting anyone or a threat to anyone. Please do not book your event with Avenue! I would hate for another bride to feel the way I did that night. Everything would have been perfect if it wasn't for their pretentious atmosphere and violent "security"

Re: STAY AWAY from Le Club Avenue :Long Branch NJ:

  • edited December 2011
    I really feel for you, this sucks but you do not need to post it 3 times.
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_stay-away-le-club-avenue-long-branch-nj-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:90Discussion:66900873-0eda-4caf-9e2d-c2a847673347Post:feb2b6f0-b018-4ad1-9c59-38fd063b442f">Re: STAY AWAY from Le Club Avenue :Long Branch NJ:</a>:
    [QUOTE]I really feel for you, this sucks but you do not need to post it 3 times.
    Posted by schrutebeets[/QUOTE]
    I think she SHOULD post it as many times as she wants!
    I have seen brides on here post the same thing over and over when it's only tiny mishap so when something as serious as this happens it is worth repeating!!
  • goaliegirlgoaliegirl member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_stay-away-le-club-avenue-long-branch-nj-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:90Discussion:66900873-0eda-4caf-9e2d-c2a847673347Post:feb2b6f0-b018-4ad1-9c59-38fd063b442f">Re: STAY AWAY from Le Club Avenue :Long Branch NJ:</a>:
    [QUOTE]I really feel for you, this sucks but you do not need to post it 3 times.
    Posted by schrutebeets[/QUOTE]

    I couldn't agree more.  It sucks what happened but you do not need to post this every day.  Maybe once a month but not 3 times in 24 hours!
  • jcg98jcg98 member
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    edited December 2011
    OP, I recommend that you follow the advice of peaches178 and send her a review for our vendor review website.  It can be anonymous for your protection. That will be the best way to get the word out to future NJ brides about avoiding that venue.

    Best of luck to you for a happy marriage!
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  • cindyn9178cindyn9178 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_stay-away-le-club-avenue-long-branch-nj-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:90Discussion:66900873-0eda-4caf-9e2d-c2a847673347Post:41a1ed66-92fd-4047-965d-27989227a362">STAY AWAY from Le Club Avenue :Long Branch NJ:</a>:
    [QUOTE]Basically, my wedding night was ruined thanks to the bouncers at the oh-so-pretentious Le Club Avenue. This place operates as if they are a celebrity ridden club in South Beach Miami  that only the rich and famous attend. First, I requested a new event coordinator because the first guy, Neil, acted as if I was bothering him when asking him to do his job.<strong> My day finally comes, I get to the bridal suite which is a room with a huge TV and a 1'x2' mirror that is just sitting on the floor. </strong>They wouldn't let my husband upstairs to take photos before the ceremony because they were still getting things ready and then they realized that he was the groom and finally let him up.  During the party, just about all of my guests were interrupted by bouncers for one reason or another. Yes, bouncers were at my wedding that I did not request. My 16 year old cousin was threatened with being kicked out because he was drinking soda that they insisted had alcohol in it. Even when he would get new soda from the bartender, they were still up his butt threatening him<strong>. My friends and I were taking a picture by the pool and they kicked us out of that area.</strong> <strong> The place turns into a club @ 10pm and they rushed all of the guests that werent staying out of the building as if there was a fire</strong>. Those of us who did stay to party longer got locked out on the deck while they had a staff meeting by the bar. Then they kicked us out of the seats by the fireplace because someone reserved those seats, yet we didnt see anyone there for hours. Thats not even the half of it.  Here's the worst part...my husband was feeling sick, so his cousin took him to the bathroom. The door was then kicked open, and 4 bouncers rush in, 2 on each of them. Both of them were in a choke-hold, and had another guy holding their feet. They were carried downstairs, all while losing consciousness thanks to the strangulation, and literally thrown out onto the boardwalk. The bouncers' reasoning was that they were in the bathroom for too long. Both my husband and his cousin have bumps, bruises, and abrasions all over, especially on their necks. I can't even imagine what would have happened if they actually did something wrong.  <strong>So today we went and filed a police report where we were told this is a frequent problem that the Long Branch PD has heard of</strong>. They advised us to contact the detective bureau and give them the names of the bouncers. I'm trying to post my experience everywhere possible as I would hate for this to happen again. My friends and family are good people and do not deserve this type of treatment. No one deserves to be assaulted when they're not hurting anyone or a threat to anyone. Please do not book your event with Avenue! I would hate for another bride to feel the way I did that night. Everything would have been perfect if it wasn't for their pretentious atmosphere and violent "security"
    Posted by lawlaw410[/QUOTE]

    I'm really sorry to hear that this happened to you, it sounds awful. But I did have a few questions about the bolded items, especially since FI was in a wedding there last summer and experienced absolutely no problems with the bouncer or staff while we were at the wedding, and afterwards.

    -Didn't you see the bridal suite before you booked the place? If so, you would have already known the size/look of the room, so I'm not sure how that is relevant.

    - Did you have tables set up out by the pool area and have use of that area during your reception? At the wedding we attended there, they had full use of the entire area, including the pool area. In fact, they allowed them to stand on the edge of the pool to take photos of the bridal party for about 15 minutes. I didn't see one bouncer during the entire reception.
    Here is one of the many pics of them standing on the edge of the pool:

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    -What time did you have the area booked until? If you were only supposed to have the area until 10pm, then I can understand them "kicking everybody out". How they do that is a different story, but it would be understandable that everybody needs to leave if they have a business they still need to run. Not saying the way they kicked everybody out was appropriate though.

    -When was your wedding? If your husband and brother were literally thrown on the boardwalk as you described, and went unconscious because of a choke hold, why wouldn't you have contacted the police immediately that night? I totally understand it was your wedding night, but if it was as bad as you have described, I think I would've called the police immediately and pressed charges against them, instead of trying to find out who the bouncers were afterwards.

    I totally don't blame you for wanting to spread the word about this if all of these awful things happened, and I agree that posting your review on the Vendor Review site would be very helpful.
  • edited December 2011
    Wow!!! That story was disturbing! So sorry for that happening on your big day :/
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  • goaliegirlgoaliegirl member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_stay-away-le-club-avenue-long-branch-nj-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:90Discussion:66900873-0eda-4caf-9e2d-c2a847673347Post:864766f6-be61-4fdc-904c-a9a371763c15">Re: STAY AWAY from Le Club Avenue :Long Branch NJ:</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to STAY AWAY from Le Club Avenue :Long Branch NJ: : I'm really sorry to hear that this happened to you, it sounds awful. But I did have a few questions about the bolded items, especially since FI was in a wedding there last summer and experienced absolutely no problems with the bouncer or staff while we were at the wedding, and afterwards. -Didn't you see the bridal suite before you booked the place? If so, you would have already known the size/look of the room, so I'm not sure how that is relevant. - Did you have tables set up out by the pool area and have use of that area during your reception? At the wedding we attended there, they had full use of the entire area, including the pool area. In fact, they allowed them to stand on the edge of the pool to take photos of the bridal party for about 15 minutes. I didn't see one bouncer during the entire reception. Here is one of the many pics of them standing on the edge of the pool: -What time did you have the area booked until? If you were only supposed to have the area until 10pm, then I can understand them "kicking everybody out". How they do that is a different story, but it would be understandable that everybody needs to leave if they have a business they still need to run. Not saying the way they kicked everybody out was appropriate though. -When was your wedding? If your husband and brother were literally thrown on the boardwalk as you described, and went unconscious because of a choke hold, why wouldn't you have contacted the police immediately that night? I totally understand it was your wedding night, but if it was as bad as you have described, I think I would've called the police immediately and pressed charges against them, instead of trying to find out who the bouncers were afterwards. I totally don't blame you for wanting to spread the word about this if all of these awful things happened, and I agree that posting your review on the Vendor Review site would be very helpful.
    Posted by cindyn9178[/QUOTE]

    Cindy--very good questions that I was actually asking myself as I was reading this.   The more I read this story the more I find some things hard to believe.
  • EmmaLBeeEmmaLBee member
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    edited December 2011
    THANK YOU for posting this. I have since booked elsewhere but did seriously consider having our wedding at Avenue. What a horrible story.

    Regardless of how "hard to believe" anything is, no one wants to book a wedding at a location that has sketchy reviews. 

    Thanks for your review.
  • edited December 2011
    So sad to hear that happened to you on your day.  Scary that at one point I considered a wedding there.  I think you should post away everywhere you can so that no other couples go through such a thing.  I feel sorry some people on here are giving you the third degree when we should be supporting one another.  Hang in there and try to look on the bright side of things.  I've heard how rude and abrasive the staff at Avenue can be myself. 
    Christina : )
  • cindyn9178cindyn9178 member
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    edited December 2011

    I just feel that if you are going to give such a bad review about a place, then the details of your story should make sense, and to me, this story doesn't make complete sense, which is why I asked those questions.
    I find it very interesting that she never came back here to say anything else about it..

  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_stay-away-le-club-avenue-long-branch-nj-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:90Discussion:66900873-0eda-4caf-9e2d-c2a847673347Post:27ad2242-91bb-4c00-8306-1600761b046a">Re: STAY AWAY from Le Club Avenue :Long Branch NJ:</a>:
    [QUOTE]I just feel that if you are going to give such a bad review about a place, then the details of your story should make sense, and to me, this story doesn't make complete sense, which is why I asked those questions. I find it very interesting that she never came back here to say anything else about it..
    Posted by cindyn9178[/QUOTE]

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