So I am stuck on this one. We don't want kids at our wedding, however we have to bend the rules for some of our guests due to no available babysitters or too young to leave alone. For the majority of our guests i dont want kids to come. How do you address this on the invitation and overall how upset do people get if their kids arent invited?
The way i see it is that most venues, ours included count that kid as a head. so if we are having 100 guests a 5 year old counts as a guest and instead of having that 5 year old i'd rather be able to invite another colleague from work.
Any brides out there run into this problem? whats the best thing to say if people call up asking if they can bring their children?
Thanks in advance!!