The attendants for our wedding have already been chosen and I would love to get my brother involved somehow. Is it too much of a tradition breaking leap to have him as the ring bearer with the actual rings? He will be 25 yrs old when we get married so I know he's responsible enough to take care of them. Or, if the attendants change (seeing as they don't know who they are yet) would he walk down the aisle solo or with another groomsman?