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Printing Own Invites
bookmaiden17_
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM
Did you keep your wedding dress
[Deleted User]
08/12/16 2:01PM

Hi,  I'm debating donating my wedding dress after the wedding, but a small part of me worries I may regret it. What did you do after you wo… Read more

08/12/16 2:01PM
Receiving Line and Photos - or Table Visits?
CaitFins
08/8/16 12:38AM

All of our portraits will be taken directly after the ceremony. How would we manage/time the receiving line around this? My parents are not … Read more

08/8/16 12:38AM
Time Management for DIY
SarahTiestheKnot
08/7/16 8:47PM

Hi everyone! I'm doing a lot of DIY stuff for my wedding, one of the biggest being my veil. I am knitting my veil, which is going to be a gi… Read more

08/7/16 8:47PM
Groom's Family & the Dress
lottie64
08/8/16 6:48PM

Good morning! New to The Knot here! I just have a quick question. I went shopping this weekend for my dress (ended up finding one too!!!), … Read more

08/8/16 6:48PM

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Family obligations?
knottieeb50878f569d3833
04/20/18 1:23AM

My son and his bride's early evening rehearsal dinner has been designated as wedding party only, but because all of my family is travelling … Read more

04/20/18 1:23AM
MOH Woes
SoonToBeSmith0512
04/15/18 1:31PM

Hi Knotties,  I'm in need of some advice. My wedding is in three weeks and I found out yesterday that my maid of honor is moving a few sta… Read more

04/15/18 1:31PM
NWR Sympathy Cards
climbingwife
04/19/18 2:52PM

My FIL passed away 3 weeks ago. He didn't want any service, so we just had him cremated and will privately spread his ashes where he request… Read more

04/19/18 2:52PM
Privacy and self-protection is not 'lying by …
mrsconn23
04/19/18 1:46PM

Dear Prudence, My girlfriend of eight years had an affair with a married acquaintance of ours, “Konstantin.” They both claim it never g… Read more

04/19/18 1:46PM
I need gift ideas
6fsn
04/19/18 4:26PM

Our 13 year anniversary is Monday- lace.  I got him lingerie for Valentine's, Christmas, and our last anniversary!  His 41st bday. His … Read more

04/19/18 4:26PM
Imma put this here…posting website to Faceb…
swishswoosh
04/20/18 5:28AM

Do you or do you not? Fiance was looking at our registry and it said only 3 things have been purchased. I forgot to include the website on t… Read more

04/20/18 5:28AM
Wedding shower after wedding and before recep…
themcdonoughs
04/16/18 6:57PM

So we have a slightly odd order of marital events. Long story short, my dad has stage four cancer and they are taking him off of treatment. … Read more

04/16/18 6:57PM
Eff this lady and your boss.
mrsconn23
04/19/18 1:47PM

Dear Prudence, I work in a small office of about 30 people. Recently a woman who is a bit of a prankster has moved into our office suite. I… Read more

04/19/18 1:47PM
Talk to her, but check the passive-aggression…
mrsconn23
04/19/18 1:44PM

Dear Prudence, About six months ago, I moved in with my friend “Jenny” to save on rent. Jenny owns a two-bedroom townhouse, and I pay h… Read more

04/19/18 1:44PM
NJ/NY Wedding License Question
Knottie1473900528
04/17/18 2:26PM

Hi All, I wasn't able to locate a board that specifically addresses but I'm hoping someone could help! I live in New Jersey but will be ge… Read more

04/17/18 2:26PM
Rant Regarding Guest List
Knottie1474857822
04/20/18 3:04PM

Hello all! My wedding is in 22 days and today is the deadline for RSVP's and I just needed somewhere to rant! We invited 231 guests (30+ mo… Read more

04/20/18 3:04PM
Does what he wants matter?
mrsconn23
04/19/18 1:38PM

Dear Prudence, My biological father was emotionally and verbally abusive to my sister and me when we were young, and my mother divorced him… Read more

04/19/18 1:38PM
letsdothething
04/16/18 4:47PM

Hi guys! I have lurked on this page for so long and am finally able to start utilizing it (as I am pretty sure I am about to get engaged). M… Read more

04/16/18 4:47PM
Flip Flops- Dollar Tree vs. Old Navy?
knottie3168793d3be71b82
04/17/18 5:57PM

Anyone have an idea if the Dollar Tree flip flops are as good as the Old Navy ones you can get at their yearly $1 sale?  It seems like a bi… Read more

04/17/18 5:57PM
Can you cut the cake with the side of a cake …
ballerinabek27
04/17/18 5:30PM

I am looking at purchasing a designer cake server for the cake cutting ceremony however, there is not a matching knife available for purchas… Read more

04/17/18 5:30PM
Prudie's response, lol
lovesclimbing
04/17/18 3:08PM

Today in the chat.  Q. Delayed thank-yous: My partner and I got married last summer. After the wedding, my siblings and parents and I wen… Read more

04/17/18 3:08PM
Should I be 'straight' with the team?
mrsconn23
04/19/18 1:40PM

Dear Prudence, I am a straight woman who recently moved to the U.S. In order to make friends, I joined a softball team. I found a team tha… Read more

04/19/18 1:40PM
Venue wants $200 to dead head rose bushes
knottie723ba657f3426cb5
04/16/18 10:25PM

Help!  I had a site visit with our venue last week.  The ceremony will be outside and the reception inside at a golf club.  The rose bush… Read more

04/16/18 10:25PM
Invite Question
dontbeaturd
04/19/18 6:45PM

What are the the absolutely required elements of a wedding invitation? It's been a while since I've actually gotten one in the mail.  My f… Read more

04/19/18 6:45PM
Don't respond to anything that's not business…
mrsconn23
04/19/18 1:49PM

Dear Prudence, “Kirk” works for a company that’s a customer of my company. Before I was promoted into my current job, I worked closel… Read more

04/19/18 1:49PM
Vows - thoughts please?
swishswoosh
04/20/18 5:20AM

Hello all, It's my first post here, my wedding is next weekend and my fiance and I are writing our own vows. I think I like how it sound… Read more

04/20/18 5:20AM
Ring Help XP
letsdothething
04/16/18 4:45PM

Hi guys! I have lurked on this page for so long and am finally able to start utilizing it (as I am pretty sure I am about to get engaged). M… Read more

04/16/18 4:45PM
How did you sign your thank you cards?
Erin & Cookie
04/17/18 6:27PM

I just wanted to see what other people where doing because I can't decide how I should sign our thank you cards... firstname & firstna… Read more

04/17/18 6:27PM
Inverness, Scotland Honeymoon
knottie383912fd72f57890
04/16/18 7:20PM

FI and I are traveling to Inverness for our honeymoon at the beginning of May. Travel time aside, we will have 4 & 1/2 days. We have a 1… Read more

04/16/18 7:20PM
The bump is glitchy
lovesclimbing
04/15/18 8:41PM

@bumpadmin @knotadmin @knotriley I go to the forum on The Bump via the mobile website on iPhone safari, and it shows me as logged out. Eve… Read more

04/15/18 8:41PM
How long does it take to get a post "approved…
lovesclimbing
04/19/18 4:01PM

I commented in the confessions thread on a wedding Woes. It said my comment would be posted after it was approved. This was yesterday. It ha… Read more

04/19/18 4:01PM
Wedding items for Sale
Lizasap
04/21/18 3:10AM

Hi Knotties I am a past Knottie and have some wedding items for sale. Let me know if you are interested. I have 50 Red chair sashes in Satin… Read more

04/21/18 3:10AM
F/S Beautiful Wedding Decorations - Perfect f…
lgellashort
04/17/18 12:38PM

https://newyork.craigslist.org/brk/for/d/beautiful-wedding-decorations/6554670833.html Create a dreamy ambience at your wedding with these … Read more

04/17/18 12:38PM
Introduce Yourselves/ Awaken the Students Boa…
jlcece
04/17/18 2:50PM

Hi all! I am new(ish) to TK and I am in graduate school planning my wedding for after I graduate! I noticed this board isn't too active. I'… Read more

04/17/18 2:50PM
Priest/pastor/minister for outdoor wedding
knottiea7e0740656f62ae4
04/20/18 3:02AM

Hi All, My fiance and I are having an outdoor ceremony.  Both of us were raised Catholic, however neither of us would consider ourselves … Read more

04/20/18 3:02AM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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