My Fi & I have been together 14 yrs & have decided to make a big move out of state together away from both of our families. I told him that in making such a uprooting move that I wouldn't do it unless there was more of a committment. He then agreed & now I am in the beginning stages of wedding planning. I feel as though our families are not as excited for us since we have been together for so long and that doesn't make the planning process fun for me. The wedding is not until July 2014 but I want to make sure that I have crossed all T's & dotted all I's in this process (since we are paying for our own wedding) so I can show everyone that regardless of what they think or feel, that we think its a big moment for us! They're not against us getting married, it's just like they're all saying "it's about time!" We have decided on our guest list, booked our venue & thats about it. What's next? Should I sit back & wait until we get closer to the 1 yr mark to do anything else? Any comments/suggestions are greatly appreciated.