I am getting married in a courthouse ceremony on 4/27/12, the following day we are having a very small reception in our home. My husband-to-be and our son have several severe food allergies, so we decided to bake our own cake and have spaghetti and breadsticks since it is very easy to adapt these things to the very limited diets they follow. I need ideas on how to pull this off. I will be decorating and we have the equipment to be our own DJ. Any advice to make this a fun time that suits our own quirkyness but is also classy.