So we are getting married at the Saphire Estate in three weeks and we had one of our final meetings today. In the time that we have been working with the Saphire (8 months), we have gone through three wedding consultants because they all leave the company... Lovely! Today was our first meeting with our newest consultant. Evidently our last consultant wrote up a list of points about her brides to put into their files. At the meeting today, our consultant left the file wide open on the desk when he stepped out to ask someone a question, and I saw what was written. Basically they said that I was a "very nervous bride" and that I was "very attached to" the 2nd consultant, and I "may have a hard time with the latest transition." Is this normal??? I feel like this was just very unprofessional to show it to me. They have taken maybe a total of two hours of time over the last eight months to get to know me, and they are completely judging me! Now I'm becoming paranoid about what they all think of me, etc. I understand that they need to communicate with each other to explain what their clients are like, but did it have to be done this way?? I could use some words of wisdom and advice...
Thanks,
Sarah