One of my BMs, a very close friend, is getting married next June. She announced it a few months ago. I am going to be one of her BM and my sister is her MOH, but she really doesn't want to be simply because she is mine and it is a lot of work and money. ANyway, we got an invite to a bridesmid bbq tomorrow to discuss allof her wedding plans and ideas. Here is my ?
My sister is really mad at the timing of the bbq since my shower is in three and a half weeks. SHe thinks that eberyone in my wedding should be focused on that. I guess whenever my sister wants to sit down with the girls to talk about my stuff, it turns into all about her.
Then my dad asked me the other day if everything bothered me about this. He was really irked too and y dad rarely gets mad about anything. Here's the thing....it really wasn't bothering me. I mean she has the right to e excited. The only thing that may get me irked is that if I am trying to talk to her about some help I need for my wedding and it turns into about her. As for the cookout, not really bothered. Her wedding needs to planned too. I think I would be more bothered if I still had a lot to do and she wasn't around to help me or even just offer help.
What do you girls think? SHould I be annoyed?
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