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Steph0871 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:fe477e29-7839-459a-8c97-4f007dae6ea0">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I bet there is a market for that.
Posted by ahhhitsshannyn[/QUOTE]

Probably the same idiot parents who buy their kids 'chicken pox suckers' off the internet from strangers.

LDY- trust me, I'm not upset. I wasn't then, either.

J&K10910 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:a8bc96c5-1577-44b6-a8ed-d9e27698c63a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I doubt TK would mind Eagles saying "Take your ring to your jeweler and get it re-pronged so you don't lose your stone" - if she said "bring your ring to ME!" yes, they can get pissed. I mean - teachers talk about teaching, I talk about apartments, mica talks about doctoring - they're talking about things they know about and can bring information to the table about. I dont understand the difference, just because one person works in a jewelry store, as long as the don't mention which or make any money off of it - there's no reason to get upset about it.
Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]

I'm just quoting you as a jumping off point, FYI.

Here's the thing. People who don't even talk about their own business have been banned for being vendors before. It happened. I wouldn't make that up.

So while I'm not saying that Eagles should be banned, I AM saying that anyone who does ANYTHING that might be remotely related to the wedding business should probably be pretty fucking careful about what they say.

baystateapple · January 2012

I think she meant a Hoodsie cup. Which is a cup of ice cream that's half chocolate/half vanilla. Used to have them all the time as a kid. They were pretty awesome.

LDYGTR13 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:09ab6f91-6e3a-41c0-80a6-2d16e8d52601">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Probably the same idiot parents who buy their kids 'chicken pox suckers' off the internet from strangers. <strong>LDY- trust me, I'm not upset. I wasn't then, either.</strong>
Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]
Okay,so you're not "upset" but you tried to get her banned because of it which was complete and total crap and then you just said people shouldn't talk about work if they're vendors or whatever. Do you see how that's stupid?

louisvillebride21 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:c920c633-7280-4462-bebe-912a5ef47f95">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I'm just quoting you as a jumping off point, FYI. Here's the thing. People who don't even talk about their own business have been banned for being vendors before. It happened. I wouldn't make that up. So while I'm not saying that Eagles should be banned, I AM saying that anyone who does ANYTHING that might be remotely related to the wedding business should probably be pretty fucking careful about what they say.
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]
We're not exactly in that HeyDay (hayday?) anymore though. Unfortch. <div>
</div><div>I mean, I love Eagles and all. But you know...dem were da good ole days and all. </div>

louisvillebride21 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:ab1c393d-caa2-430e-a4e6-e4224e3e28c4">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : No, I have never had an issue with you , but you obviously have one with me. I was pointing out that you keep dragging me into your beef with stef. Stef and I agree on lots of things, but we also disagree on lots of things. The Kiki and Eagles vendor thing being 2 examples.
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]
Fair enough point. I thought Steph was being hypocritical for calling out MY friend, while keepign the lid on HER friend.

J&K10910 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:cf968b6c-952a-4735-97e2-1a0d14267a4e">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Okay,so you're not "upset" but you tried to get her banned because of it which was complete and total crap and then you just said people shouldn't talk about work if they're vendors or whatever. Do you see how that's stupid?
Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]

Ok, but there is a difference between pointing out that she COULD be banned, and actually trying to GET her banned. And, frankly, YES SHE COULD BE BANNED />

And I'm pretty sure that's all anyone was trying to say.

Steph0871 · January 2012

I think some people care way too much about the internet.

Eagles was pissing me off. I made a snide comment that she shouldn't even be posting... because of her job. Now apparently that means I'm super upset and have it out for blood against her.

Do you see how that's stupid?

(Let's also keep in mind, that most of that conversation after I made that comment were other people chiming in saying they agreed.)

J&K10910 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:4d1b2cc8-4275-4485-83ee-eeb12d075481">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : We're not exactly in that HeyDay (hayday?) anymore though. Unfortch. I mean, I love Eagles and all. But you know...dem were da good ole days and all.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]

It sort of sounds like you're trying to get Eagles banned!!!!!!!

mica178 · January 2012

That's true, J, but I don't think TK gods care about that stuff as much now. They're too busy screening out all of our hatemail about the crappy IT dept.

LDYGTR13 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:c920c633-7280-4462-bebe-912a5ef47f95">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I'm just quoting you as a jumping off point, FYI. Here's the thing. People who don't even talk about their own business have been banned for being vendors before. It happened. I wouldn't make that up. So while I'm not saying that Eagles should be banned, I AM saying that anyone who does ANYTHING that might be remotely related to the wedding business should probably be pretty fucking careful about what they say.
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]
And I agree! (YAY!)<div>
</div><div>But I, for one, apreciate the shiit out of Eagles for having insight on jewelry stuff that I dont know about. She's been helpful to me and others. It would make no sense to ban her for having an expertise about something that HAPPENS to be wedding related.</div><div>
</div><div>Oh finally! I have a good comparison - if we had a botanist, could they not talk about flowers? She works in a jewelry store and is good enough that she gets to do some serious appraising and things - she's legit. It just bothers me that someone would try to say we can't talk about things we know a great deal about because it *could* be wedding related.</div>

Steph0871 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:d1c7f649-fc27-480d-9604-aaf7a902ec90">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Fair enough point. I thought Steph was being hypocritical for calling out MY friend, while keepign the lid on HER friend.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]

I get what you were saying, but the difference (like I've been saying all along) is that Blue doesn't talk about her shiit on here.

Celles · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:dc53efad-0218-4d42-a8ea-77da3a9efa0c">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I'm not kicking off J. I accept her flame. I'm referring to AYG and a bunch of people who complained about me when they didn't participate in FFT. If you want specifics, Celles sticks out in my head.
Posted by mica178[/QUOTE]

Like I said in AYG, I was reading the thread sporadically and several pages behind (in between SQL queries), so there wasn't much of a point to me participating in FFT. The same is true of this thread, unfortunately, but you mentioned me by name so I'll respond, even if isn't exactly timely.

FTR, it wasn't <em>just</em> that thread. You do it frequently enough that several people have either commented on it generally or called you out on specific instances. Maybe that means there's some truth to the flame? Also, I think you misunderstood me: I don't think you lurk threads, waiting for an opportunity to inject your unique and witty commentary into them. This is going to sound a lot bitchier than I mean it, but I don't give you that much credit. I do think you use that bright orange banner to hide the fact that you don't <em>have</em> an original thought to contribute by implying that you would unleash your fabulous wit... if only you weren't constrained by your illustrious modship.

Like J said, either flame someone or don't. The in-between martyred mod act is tired.

emilyinchile · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:feb7d05b-50c8-4b40-96fa-12b79d8bb655">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I think she meant a Hoodsie cup. Which is a cup of ice cream that's half chocolate/half vanilla. Used to have them all the time as a kid. They were pretty awesome.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]

<div>I thought she misspelled hoodie and meant a hooded sweatshirt with the design from that lone wolf t-shirt that was all over the internet a while back.</div><div>
</div><div>You're probably right, but I'm sticking with my vision of LVB in her supercool hoodie.</div>

Rosie109 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:feb7d05b-50c8-4b40-96fa-12b79d8bb655">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I think she meant a Hoodsie cup. Which is a cup of ice cream that's half chocolate/half vanilla. Used to have them all the time as a kid. They were pretty awesome.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]

Why the hell would LVB want one of those?

Nah. Give the girl a hooded sweatshirt she deserves it for playing like a champ.

louisvillebride21 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:cccdc0c8-da7b-41d2-be90-96278230ba35">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : It sort of sounds like you're trying to get Eagles banned!!!!!!!
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]
Lol, not at all! But...well, I know what I'm tryihg to say, even if it's not coming through!

Snippylynn · January 2012

Blue, has anyone told you that you look super tired in your sig pic? I donät know if it's the lighting or the amount of eye makeup or what... but I'm not sure that it's flattering.

Steph0871 · January 2012

yeah... I've always wondered what a 'hoodsie' is too. Blue's said it before, and I just figured I wasn't cool enough to get it.

musicalsunlight · January 2012

Beating a dead horse here (and not through the whole thread yet so no idea if it was brought up) and cutting in a more interesting argument, but I flame Gretchen because it pissed me off how bossy she was being about what women SHOULD feel towards the feminist movement.

louisvillebride21 · January 2012

Yeah, I do need a new (it took me 3 fuucking times to spell that, noo, knew, new) hoodie. Dont need no more junk in the trunk.

Now she's trying to get me fat?? Fuuck you, Steph. Fuuck you.

baystateapple · January 2012

Rosie -- Uh, because ice cream is awesome? Anyone who doesn't want ice cream is weird. Unless they're lactose intolerant.

Though a hoodie strikes much more of a badass note, I will admit.

Blueyed228 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:5d4ce7eb-1f84-460e-9998-cc3f9a3c7dca">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Blue, has anyone told you that you look super tired in your sig pic? I donät know if it's the lighting or the amount of eye makeup or what... but I'm not sure that it's flattering.
Posted by Snippylynn[/QUOTE]

well im glad to see you have found your douche pants again.

louisvillebride21 · January 2012

Um, give me 5. I gotta nbit of work to do. Not a flyby.

Steph0871 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:5bb717e3-0e68-48ed-bf6c-49207f78fb97">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Yeah, I do need a new (it took me 3 fuucking times to spell that, noo, knew, new) hoodie. Dont need no more junk in the trunk. Now she's trying to get me fat?? Fuuck you, Steph. Fuuck you.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]

whaaa?

Also, good job Amoro. Just making sure no one thinks you're still soft, huh?

emilyinchile · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:5bb717e3-0e68-48ed-bf6c-49207f78fb97">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Yeah, I do need a new (it took me 3 fuucking times to spell that, noo, knew, new) hoodie. Dont need no more junk in the trunk. Now she's trying to get me fat?? Fuuck you, Steph. Fuuck you.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]

<div>Did you intentionally direct this at Steph when Blue was the one who said it? I can't decide if it's better if you did it on purpose to be funny or if it was a mistake.</div>

Rosie109 · January 2012

She could store super cool things in the front pocket. Like a box cuter or something.

Girlie1030 · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:5d4ce7eb-1f84-460e-9998-cc3f9a3c7dca">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]Blue, has anyone told you that you look super tired in your sig pic? I donät know if it's the lighting or the amount of eye makeup or what... but I'm not sure that it's flattering.
Posted by Snippylynn[/QUOTE]

WTH? Not soft - got it.

ahhhitsshannyn · January 2012

Now I want ice cream.

J&K10910 · January 2012

Am I speaking in another language? Because apparently what's in my head is NOT coming out through what I'm saying at all.

ANY SINGLE PERSON WHO DOES ANYTHING WEDDING RELATED AND POSTS ON THESE BOARDS COULD BE BANNED AT ANY TIME REGARDLESS OF WHETHER OR NOT THEY TALK ABOUT IT OR HOW BUSY THE KNOT GODS ARE.

That does not mean they SHOULD be banned, or people WANT them to be banned. Or that they shouldn't talk about their area of expertise.

You are all (SWEEPING GENERALIZATION!!!!!!!!!) taking what was said and poking way too far into it.

I mean, yes, a big part of it was asshole mods (for example, me saying SaltyPeanut did my e-pics and Dani immediately saying "Well I guess I'm banning her," even though SP hadn't posted on any of the boards in MONTHS at that time), but the rules are pretty clear about people in the wedding industry not being able to post on the boards.

AGAIN, I AM NOT SAYING I THINK THEY SHOULD ALL BE BANNED OR NOT POST. I'm saying to fucking be careful what you say, and that's all.

Jesus. Was it in English this time?

emilyinchile · January 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-84?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:cc4d1ee4-acf8-4a89-b34b-c2cbf9067e85Post:955cff48-4bb6-43e8-b10f-f52e879eb9db">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]This is going to sound a lot bitchier than I mean it, but I don't give you that much credit. I do think you use that bright orange banner to hide the fact that you don't have an original thought to contribute by implying that you would unleash your fabulous wit... if only you weren't constrained by your illustrious modship.
Posted by Celles[/QUOTE]

<div>This sounds a lot more complicated to me than it just being that Mica thinks some people are idiots but doesn't think mods should go around telling posters they're idiots.</div><div>
</div><div>I mean, I agree that if you're not going to flame, just don't say anything, but I don't think that it means Mica has found the perfect cover for her being boring, ETA: which is what I understand you to be saying. (and which is not the same as me saying I think she's boring)</div>

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