i think im caving in and hiering a wedding planner. my In laws to be are trying to take everything over and im sick of it. I want simple and country. and above all SMALL on everything but the wedding. and i dont expect my parents to pay for everything since we have half the guest they do. all im asking is for them to pitch in a little bit. but i dont want to sound like a bitch. one of my brides maids is amazing and does wedding planning. and she said that she could be the one to hand the bills to people. im so stressed with this and other personal things i just want to say the hell with it. ladies please help me