Hi Ladies!! This is my first post on The Knot.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year this month. Since the first day we got together we have been inseparable and rarely go a day w/o being together. We started talking about getting married about 6 months in but not until about 2 months ago did it get really serious. In October we were going to his cousin's wedding for which he was a groomsman in. Maybe it was just wedding fever, but the next day we were talking and he said he wanted to elope, I thought about it for a few days and at first I thought I could do it but the more and more seriously I considered it I realized it so hard to give up the idea of having a real wedding. A real wedding for me isn’t a large production or anything just a small country wedding with a few close friends and family. I didn’t think this was too much to ask. After I told him this we talked it through a bit and it came down to him jumping ahead of himself and he wanted to wait a while longer before we got married. I was okay with this and said for him to think on it a while and whenever he was ready I’ll still be here, that I’m not going anywhere. For the past couple months thing have been back to normal and we hadn’t mentioned it at all. But then all the sudden last week he made a comment about how when my less is up in February things will change and I won’t be living on my own anymore. I just let the comment go and figured if it was something he wanted to talk about he would..Now I’m confused..and while I haven’t brought it up its driving me nuts trying to figure out what he's thinking. Any opinion's or suggestions on what to do?????