I have found myself in quite a pickle. We are having kids in our wedding (3 flower girls and 2 ringbearers). We are having a no kid reception and I know usually the kids in the wedding still go to the reception. My problem is that we dont have any room for the kids in the wedding at the reception. I offered to pay for a babysitter for all the kids (we have a HUGE room at the hotel that they can go to during the reception and play games/movies/playstation etc) but the feedback I am getting is that its rude to expect the kids not to be at the reception. HELP I dont know what to do!!