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Grandparents

matt&britmatt&brit member
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My Mema is divorced and I am not inviting my ex grandfather. My Mema now has a boyfriend. I am not his biggest fan but I don't hate him. When my Mema is brought in by the ushers does her boyfriend follow her and the usher or does he go sit down kinda where she is sitting? Am I making any sense? lol
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  • ChristineNBChristineNB
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    Is your ex-grandfather your blood grandfather?  And you aren't inviting him?  I wonder if the rest of the family is ok with that...
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  • HobokensFuryHobokensFury member
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    He sits and waits for her. He should not be apart of the procession. But I'm wondering the same thing.  If your grandpa is blood related he has to be invited.
     
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  • matt&britmatt&brit member
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    No he shouldnt be invited. My dad is very fine with it. He cheated on my mema and I havent talked to him in 15 plus years. Even if I did invite him he would not be part of procession!
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  • TiffannieFTiffannieF member
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    I would have your Mema's bf (?) just sitting, waiting for her.  However he would escort her for the recessional OR the usher will escort her and he will follow (it will look weird if he's still just sitting there)...I guess it's not that big of a deal either way (I just personally think it would be weird if he was left behind during processional).

    My ex-SIL made my (now but wasn't at the time) step mom sit in a different row.  I thought it was extremely rude and I guess my Step Mom still hasn't forgotten it.  Luckily that was the first sign of my ex-SILs mego b!tchiness and my brother and her have since divorced (she was a very horrible person). 
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  • mdeidremdeidre
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    Um, your grandpa is still your grandpa, no matter how mad you are at him.  You don't have to invite him if you don't want him there, you don't have to have anyone there but the groom and the officiant, but he's still your grandpa.  Believe me, there are folks in my family that I wish I could vote out, but they're still my family.
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  • matt&britmatt&brit member
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    Im sorry not trying to be rude. I know he is still family but no one really knows what has happen. I dont want him invited I am not the only one that hasnt invited him.
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  • AllieHysh19AllieHysh19 member
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    Don't let anyone tell you who to invite and who not to. I'm not inviting my own dad, so don't worry about it.
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