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LindseyandMarc
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WHO IS WORRIED ABOUT THEIR FI'S BACHELOR PARTY???
in New Jersey
I KNOW MOST WOMAN THINK STRIPPERS AND REALLY WHO CAN HANDLE THAT??? ESPECIALLY WHEN GUYS WILL BE GUYS..
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Re: WHO IS WORRIED ABOUT THEIR FI'S BACHELOR PARTY???
[QUOTE]STOP YELLING!
Posted by mbcdefg[/QUOTE]
lol
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EDIT...i'm more worried about him drinking himself sick! =(
t+sBio
Ive been to a bachelor party, did the whole stripper scene till the morning end. Pretty exhausting how men can drink and just be merry... I gotta say....
My FI just called me now to say he's on his way to his bachelor party. I'm not worried at all. He's going away for the weekend to play paintball and drink. Honestly if a stripper showed up I really wouldn't care. He's not into strippers but I wouldn't be surprised if his friends decided to get one. I trust him so it's not a big deal.
I personally Hate when a girl is all worried, says she isnt, but then her bachelorette party comes and she tries to compete....Like as if she ever was a drinker or a party girl... Besides its never the same, a guys friends are brutal when it come to these things...
My only concern about the party was how the guys were getting home from the city after a night of drinking (not that I expected anyone to drive drunk, but getting a dozen drunk guys home sounds like a logistical nightmare), but they wound up renting a limo so that made me feel better.
The girls who DO publically nag their fiances/husbands about stuff like this are the ones who get ripped apart by the other people in the group. I've had girlfriends like that through the years who are insanely jealous/naggy/controlling of their guys, and the rest of us have usually referred to them as psychos. I never want to be "that girl."
If you (collective "you") have small concerns about a bachelor party, fine, but do the both of you a favor and talk about it in private, and don't mention the details to your buddies. People will have nothing good to say about you if you air your dirty laundry in public like that.
[QUOTE]My FI just called me now to say he's on his way to his bachelor party. I'm not worried at all. He's going away for the weekend to play paintball and drink. Honestly if a stripper showed up I really wouldn't care. He's not into strippers but I wouldn't be surprised if his friends decided to get one. I trust him so it's not a big deal.
Posted by littledaisies[/QUOTE]
I don't know how soon you guys are getting married but be careful with paintball! I know people come back with big welts on them... may not look good in the wedding pictures :)
[QUOTE]Kewl then, I personally Hate when a girl is all worried, says she isnt, but then her bachelorette party comes and she tries to compete....Like as if she ever was a drinker or a party girl... Besides its never the same, a guys friends are brutal when it come to these things...
Posted by LindseyandMarc[/QUOTE]
<font color="#008080">What are you talking about!?!?
Is this somehow directed at my BParty post!?!?
You my friend are completely BSC. Please go back to where you came from, this board was much more enjoyable before you spawned.</font>
Being married is a real thriller!
[QUOTE]Kewl then, I personally Hate when a girl is all worried, says she isnt, but then her bachelorette party comes and she tries to compete....Like as if she ever was a drinker or a party girl... Besides its never the same, a guys friends are brutal when it come to these things...
Posted by LindseyandMarc[/QUOTE]
<div>Is that supposed to be comprehensible?</div><div>
</div><div>Going back to your original post -- no, I was not worried. My husband is not one to pay for bjs from strippers, so I didn't care if he got lap dances and such. Trust is an important aspect of a relationship. I understand why some women object to the idea of strippers in general from a feminist standpoint, but I think a lot of girls who can't deal with their men going to strip clubs either (a) have trust issues, (b) have self-esteem issues, (c) have a reason to not trust their bfs/fiances/husbands in the first place that they haven't shared, or (d) some combination of the above. I've been to strip clubs many times and can tell you that most of the 20- and 30-somethings there were just there to have fun with their friends and not to cheat on their girlfriends.</div><div>
</div><div>BTW, I'm beginning to think our new friend is maybe MUD...</div>
[QUOTE]Kewl then, I personally Hate when a girl is all worried, says she isnt, but then her bachelorette party comes and she tries to compete....Like as if she ever was a drinker or a party girl... Besides its never the same, a guys friends are brutal when it come to these things...
Posted by LindseyandMarc[/QUOTE]
I do not care, you don't have to be a "big drinker or a partier" to go to a bach party or have one. MH didn't even have a stripper at his, and if anyone even says "they try to compete" I wonder about them.
Please OP please (as MB said) stop yelling, stop using terms like "UR, Kewl" you are old enough to get married, be old enough to speak correctly. It's great that you want to "stir the pot" but do it in a civilized manor stop attacking for no reason.
Shall i get a mediator this time...
Look MR. Ed. I dont want to fight,
but i will if you dont run away again like earlier...
This is like the return of Crazy4u with a different name. Same argumentative tone and poor English.
[QUOTE]OK Moderator, maybe u should back up to the top of the convo, I wasnt looking to get a rise outta anyone... Not my fault MR. Ed followed me here and started her squaking.
Posted by LindseyandMarc[/QUOTE]
Mr. Ed makes no sense my dear if you are going to try (miserably) to make fun of someone then be more funny, like your a twatwaffle, not Heather, you my "KEWL" friend.
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Lola-I'm a little worried it is crazy4u, I think she wanted to end my life.