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Re: New Bride Here :)

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) : Because some people have views that harm others.  (BTW, I don't have to write things after I've quoted somebody.  Stop taking things personal and giving personal attacks).
    Posted by TiffannieF[/QUOTE]
     <div>and is having two weddings going to harm anyone??!?!?!</div><div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) : I know alot of ppl where kind and answered my Q  and I know not all you are rude and snarky and it seems to be a handfull o<strong>f ppl on here that always have to put their 2 cents in</strong> and put down the bride or her thoughts  or in my case the CZ ring that I can afford
    Posted by kristin neo[/QUOTE]

    But isn't that what TK is here for?  For people to ask a question and people respond giving an answer best of their knowledge/experience?  Some of them might not be what the OP wants to hear, some of them might be off topic addressing something that could be another issue, some of them might be blunt, heck some might be mean but what difference does it make.  You can focus on the bad or focus on the good. 

    Example: Money dance.  I asked on TK about what songs could I use for the money dance.  I got quite a few "yuck" "no that's a horrible thing to do" etc etc.  But I also got some comments that said "These songs would be appropriate" or "Money dances are only acceptable if its a cultural/family tradition."  So while I can't ignore etiquette I still did the money dance (because of family tradition on both sides) and used the responses that applied to my situation.  Same for everybody on here.  YOU can choose to focus on the bad or the good....it's how you see it.

    I've had people quote me and tell me I'm wrong (some things I was wrong some things it was just a perspective difference)...I, at times, chose to ignore them...I don't feel the need to "rebuttal" everything somebody quotes me on.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) :   and is having two weddings going to harm anyone??!?!?!
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    Honestly, yes.  It <em>could</em> cause hurt feelings.  People could think "why wasn't I good enough to be at the first/actual marriage ceremony."  Some will think a newly wed couple are just being gift grabby throwing a second wedding.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) : But isn't that what TK is here for?  For people to ask a question and people respond giving an answer best of their knowledge/experience?  Some of them might not be what the OP wants to hear, some of them might be off topic addressing something that could be another issue, some of them might be blunt, heck some might be mean but what difference does it make.  You can focus on the bad or focus on the good.  Example: Money dance.  I asked on TK about what songs could I use for the money dance.  I got quite a few "yuck" "no that's a horrible thing to do" etc etc.  But I also got some comments that said "These songs would be appropriate" or "Money dances are only acceptable if its a cultural/family tradition."  So while I can't ignore etiquette I still did the money dance (because of family tradition on both sides) and used the responses that applied to my situation.  Same for everybody on here.  YOU can choose to focus on the bad or the good....it's how you see it. I've had people quote me and tell me I'm wrong (some things I was wrong some things it was just a perspective difference)...I, at times, chose to ignore them...I don't feel the need to "rebuttal" everything somebody quotes me on.
    Posted by TiffannieF[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>I agree that when you post a Q you need to take the good with the bad</div><div>
    </div><div>however..... this is not what this thread was about.. it started with a woman saying hi  and that she was going to wedding #2 in sept</div><div> and a feww ppl went off on her and about calling her wedding a wedding </div><div>
    </div><div>that was not a Q and she should have welcomed with open arms NOT the B****y rude comments </div><div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) : I agree that is sad tha someone from WW did it, but just to be clear..im NOT one of them I didnt even know what WW was till yesterday "each to their own" it just makes me mad that ppl cant see that and cant just be supportive of others even if it's not what you would do or think<strong> ppl that try to push there views on others and that is what has happend here, need to look at themselfs and  think why im i a B**** and why cant I let others do their own thing</strong>
    Posted by kristin neo[/QUOTE]

    If society had YOUR view then we wouldn't have law enforcement, luckily society doesn't. 

    BTW, seems like you are trying to push your view of "to each their own" on us...
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) : Honestly, yes.  It could cause hurt feelings.  People could think "why wasn't I good enough to be at the first/actual marriage ceremony."  Some will think a newly wed couple are just being gift grabby throwing a second wedding.
    Posted by TiffannieF[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>"hurt fellings" is not harm </div><div> some may find the thought of 2 weddings wrong or gift grabby and those ppl will not come to the wedding</div><div>there loss! not hers</div><div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) : I agree that when you post a Q you need to take the good with the bad however..... this is not what this thread was about.. it started with a woman saying hi  and that she was going to wedding #2 in sept  and a feww ppl went off on her and about calling her wedding a wedding  that was not a Q and she should have welcomed with open arms NOT the B****y rude comments 
    Posted by kristin neo[/QUOTE]

    Sometimes, as I mentioned, the responses will be about a unrelated topic that *could* be a problem the bride/newly wed *might* experience.  She clarified that she is having a celebration of marriage, not a second wedding.  It was when other people came into the thread, started talking about things they have no knowledge of or don't have a clear understanding on the topic, that got this thread off topic.

    This thread just became a name bashing thread.

    And seriously stop throwing around the B word, you will be reported.
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    [QUOTE]why cant you women just let ppl do there own things we all have different views,lifes and so on TO same marriage is a paper and to others it the vows whats the big deal just b/c you dont like it does  not mean its wrong Im divorced and getting married for the second time, I hope none of you get divorced BUT if you do , I know that your views on what defines a "wedding" will change <strong>the paper is just for the goverment the vows are for the couple  and its the vows that hold ALL the meaning, love and vaule</strong>
    Posted by kristin neo[/QUOTE]
    Well, yes/no. The vows do need to be exchanged (at least in NJ) for the paperwork to be signed & made official. In our religion, we do not make our own vows. They are the standard ones spoken by each married couple for the past gazillion years (including my parents!). So, while the vows do have meaning & can be especially meaningful if you wrote them yourself, they are also a necessity. 
  • I can't believe this is still going on...

    Kristin, I think the internet isn't for you. 
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) : "<strong>hurt fellings" is not harm</strong>   some may find the thought of 2 weddings wrong or gift grabby and those ppl will not come to the wedding there loss! not hers
    Posted by kristin neo[/QUOTE]

    Um....really?  So when your feelings get hurt it doesn't affect you in a negative way?  Harm doesn't have to be physical, it could also be emotional (that's why there are many forms of abuse: physical, sexual, verbal, emotional, etc.).

    And once again its THEIR not THERE (don't blame your "it's easier to shorten the word" excuse on this).

    And yes it could be a person's loss if a family member didn't show up to the "celebration of marriage." 
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    [QUOTE]I can't believe this is still going on... Kristin, I think the internet isn't for you. 
    Posted by Girlie1030[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>lol, i am and have been on forms since i was 17.. the only thing i have been hurt by on tk was the person calling me tacky</div><div>
    </div><div>i just dont like seeing a woman get bashed b/c she wants to call her second wedding a wedding</div><div> and since then i have been bashed for spelling and my views of 'each to their own"</div><div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) : Sometimes, as I mentioned, the responses will be about a unrelated topic that *could* be a problem the bride/newly wed *might* experience.  She clarified that she is having a celebration of marriage, not a second wedding.  It was when other people came into the thread, started talking about things they have no knowledge of or don't have a clear understanding on the topic, that got this thread off topic. This thread just became a name bashing thread. And seriously stop throwing around the B word, you will be reported.
    Posted by TiffannieF[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>i have only call one peron a B, using the work B***hy is a sentence is not  calling anyone names and is not directed at anyone person</div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) : I agree that is sad tha someone from WW did it, but just to be clear..im NOT one of them I didnt even know what WW was till yesterday "each to their own" it just makes me mad that ppl cant see that and cant just be supportive of others even if it's not what you would do or think ppl that try to push there views on others and that is what has happend here, need to look at themselfs and  think <strong>why im i a B****</strong> and why cant I let others do their own thing
    Posted by kristin neo[/QUOTE]

    Be careful there Kristin....

     

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) : lol, i am and have been on forms since i was 17.. <strong>the only thing i have been hurt by on</strong> <strong>tk was the person calling me tacky</strong> i just dont like seeing a woman get bashed b/c she wants to call her second wedding a wedding  and since then i have been bashed for spelling and my views of 'each to their own"
    Posted by kristin neo[/QUOTE]

    You called me a B**** which I think could be far more hurtful then being called tacky....yet <em>you</em> are the person who called me it and I don't care.  You shouldn't care what strangers CALL you.  I am sure you are not tacky, if anything you are smart for not going into debt for getting a real diamond. 
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) : Um....really?  So when your feelings get hurt it doesn't affect you in a negative way?  Harm doesn't have to be physical, it could also be emotional (that's why there are many forms of abuse: physical, sexual, verbal, emotional, etc.). And once again its THEIR not THERE (don't blame your "it's easier to shorten the word" excuse on this). And yes it could be a person's loss if a family member didn't show up to the "celebration of marriage." 
    Posted by TiffannieF[/QUOTE]

    <div>my gosh!!! your are one closed minded person</div><div>again with the personal  acttacks.... over and over agin....</div><div> you have let modern  wedding Traditions cloud what's really important</div><div>the bride and groom and what they want..its not about the party or the family(bride+groom own kids not included) its about them saying their vows and the commitment to eachother</div>
  • kristin neokristin neo member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) : You called me a B**** which I think could be far more hurtful then being called tacky....yet you are the person who called me it and I don't care.  You shouldn't care what strangers CALL you.  I am sure you are not tacky, if anything you are smart for not going into debt for getting a real diamond. 
    Posted by TiffannieF[/QUOTE]

    <div>yes i called you out.... any lets see how many times have you corrected my spelling or made it look like i spelt something wrong when i didn't, and then called me on it again when i happen to be typing fast</div><div>
    </div><div>the post where i called you a B was in the post where you made it look like I have mis spelt something.. when i hadn't</div><div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) : Be careful there Kristin....
    Posted by OBX2011[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Im not calling anyone a B</div><div>its a statement about the masses not just TK ppl</div><div>*note my word useage of PPL*

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  • OMG kristin, this will be my last post here.

    1-I have not attacked you.  The quote that you highlighted did not attack you.  It's hard to find any credibility in a person who doesn't know the difference of their and there (and they're) or are too lazy to type the difference...that's why I pointed it out.  The only person that has made personal attacks is YOU.  You called me closed minded and a b.

    2-Once again...HOW did I make it look like you misspelled something?  Did I say I corrected anything?  No!  You are assuming based off my first response to you.

    3-GL in life pushing your views and laziness on everybody.  For now, I am done with your games.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) : yes i called you out.... any lets see how many times have you corrected my spelling or made it look like i spelt something wrong when i didn't, and then called me on it again when i happen to be typing fast the post where i called you a B was in the post where you made it look like I have mis spelt something.. when i hadn't
    Posted by kristin neo[/QUOTE]
    Kristin, if my memory is correct, you said you've been on forums since 17 & I'm assuming you're much older now. Considering that, I'm sure you've been on several types and see all different dynamics. As you can see here, the majorty write out in full sentences and do try to use proper spelling and grammar. There is a spell check tool that's handy for when I'm not sure. I've been on other forums who are much more laid back regarding that & conversations are more like texting. Nothing wrong with either, just different.<div>
    </div><div>So, when you try to make a point like you did here, saying "made it look like i spelt something wrong when i didn't," people will correct you because it's "spelled" not "spelt." </div>
  • kristin neokristin neo member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) : Kristin, if my memory is correct, you said you've been on forums since 17 & I'm assuming you're much older now. Considering that, I'm sure you've been on several types and see all different dynamics. As you can see here, the majorty write out in full sentences and do try to use proper spelling and grammar. There is a spell check tool that's handy for when I'm not sure. I've been on other forums who are much more laid back regarding that & conversations are more like texting. Nothing wrong with either, just different. So, when you try to make a point like you did here, saying "made it look like i spelt something wrong when i didn't," people will correct you because it's "spelled" not "spelt." 
    Posted by rlavach[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>so i have to  conform to what  "you" think is the right way to post</div><div>again   "each to their own"</div><div>
    </div><div>we all have to follow the"rules" of TK but why do I have to change how I post b/c "you" like it better and dont like the txting way or the shortend words</div><div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) : so i have to  conform to what  "you" think is the right way to post again   "each to their own" we all have to follow the"rules" of TK but why do I have to change how I post b/c "you" like it better and dont like the txting way or the shortend words
    Posted by kristin neo[/QUOTE]

    OK seriously, this is getting out of control.

    Step away from the computer.  Leave this thread alone and just start posting like you normally would.  No one is asking you to change, she was simply pointing something out to you.

     

  • Text speak, IMO, make you look unintelligent.  I am by no means saying that YOU are unintelligent.  I don't use text writing in a text message.  I certainly wouldn't use it if I was trying to convey a point and I wanted respect from people.  That simply seems counterintuitive.  

    In response to the need to conform to social norms, well, people do that all the time.  When people get in an elevator, they typically turn around and face the doors, that is a social norm.  When there is a standing ovation at a concert and eventually everyone is standing up, that is people conforming to the norm in that situation.  If you normally swear like a sailor and then go to church and don't say so much as "Oh my gosh", congratualations, you are conforming to social norms.  Do you have to do it?  No, but your experience is much more pleasant when you do.  The easiest solution in this case is to just drop the subject and find someplace else to play.  You do not like what is social accepted behavior here, go someplace else.  
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    [QUOTE]OMG kristin, this will be my last post here. 1-I have not attacked you.  The quote that you highlighted did not attack you.  It's hard to find any credibility in a person who doesn't know the difference of their and there (and they're) or are too lazy to type the difference...that's why I pointed it out.  The only person that has made personal attacks is YOU.  You called me closed minded and a b. 2-Once again...HOW did I make it look like you misspelled something?  Did I say I corrected anything?  No!  You are assuming based off my first response to you. 3-GL in life pushing your views and laziness on everybody.  For now, I am done with your games.
    Posted by TiffannieF[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>im not the only person who thought "you" corrected me the person who posted right after thought the same thing and yes it was based after all your other postes and i knoe thats why you did it!</div><div>and just b/c i use shortend words  typing on forms or txt does not make me lazy!</div><div>i dont want ppl to type like me and i dont care of they do or dont I have never asked anyone to change</div><div>all i have ever asked is ppl not be so close minded and rude and snark to other posters</div><div>the word is made up of different ppl with different views and there is no need to be rude snarky or b***ty to other just  b/c you dont agree with them or dont like how they type or what they think</div><div>
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_customs-traditions_new-bride-here?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:36Discussion:6a921ad8-2feb-48e3-8c60-629b324bda36Post:9cfc672b-bdc5-4970-b4de-a3b9e12e6d48">Re: New Bride Here :)</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: New Bride Here :) : so i have to  conform to what  "you" think is the right way to post again   "each to their own" we all have to follow the"rules" of TK but why do I have to change how I post b/c "you" like it better and dont like the txting way or the shortend words
    Posted by kristin neo[/QUOTE]
    Nope, you don't have to conform to anything. Like PP said, I wasn't trying to tell you what to do, rather explain to you the dynamics here so that you understand why you are getting the type of responses you are. You can do whatever you please with that information. I do hope you enjoy your wedding planning, whether it be on here or elsewhere. <div>
    </div><div>I'll see everyone else on the other side! :)</div>
  • Interesting that you "don't like it there" but you are still here.....


    http://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-forums/new-here-just-saying-hi/6c0e0d06a196734a.html

    It wasn't that hard to find.

     

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_customs-traditions_new-bride-here?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:36Discussion:6a921ad8-2feb-48e3-8c60-629b324bda36Post:baeff463-f73f-4531-9c1f-ccaf23de5e4f">Re: New Bride Here :)</a>:
    [QUOTE]Interesting that you "don't like it there" but you are still here..... <a href="http://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-forums/new-here-just-saying-hi/6c0e0d06a196734a.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-forums/new-here-just-saying-hi/6c0e0d06a196734a.html</a> It wasn't that hard to find.
    Posted by OBX2011[/QUOTE]
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    </div><div>and your point is???<div>
    </div><div>i never tried to hide it</div></div>
  • OBX2011OBX2011 member
    2500 Comments Fifth Anniversary 25 Love Its First Answer
    edited April 2012
    You're exhausting.

    My point is that if you don't like it here, why are you still here???

    Seems strange to complain about a site, yet you continue to post.

    ETA:  I tried to help you out, but you're on your own.

     

  • My point is simply that your own writing is less than perfect, so why make it a point to correct everyone else? Their posts were just as easily read as yours. Instead of worrying about other people's spelling, why not use that time to proofread your own posts, if writing is truly that big of a deal to you? You correcting their spelling when it is completely irrelevent to the topic is the same as me correcting your grammar.
  • OBX2011OBX2011 member
    2500 Comments Fifth Anniversary 25 Love Its First Answer
    edited April 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_customs-traditions_new-bride-here?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:36Discussion:6a921ad8-2feb-48e3-8c60-629b324bda36Post:69ae2062-8731-49c0-abe1-d263759fe772">Re: New Bride Here :)</a>:
    [QUOTE]My point is simply that your own writing is less than perfect, so why make it a point to correct everyone else? Their posts were just as easily read as yours. Instead of worrying about other people's spelling, why not use that time to proofread your own posts, if writing is truly that big of a deal to you? You correcting their spelling when it is completely irrelevent to the topic is the same as me correcting your grammar.
    Posted by Pandao[/QUOTE]

    Who are you talking about here?

    Go back to WW ;)

     

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