I just recently was proposed to on christmas day. Our wedding is 5/5/12. For my BM's I have asked that they all choose their own dress, as long as it is black I dont care about the style as long as they are comfy and love their dress. I also want them to wear boots, preferably cowboy boots (pink or black they get to pick) but I'm not getting much cooperation or input. Is this asking too much? where am I going wrong?!