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  • bethsmilesbethsmiles member
    10000 Comments Sixth Anniversary 500 Love Its First Answer
    edited December 2011
    Wow...that was fun reading girls. This is the first time BSC girls have come in a nice little package of two.

    OP - I am not engaged, BF and I are not getting engaged for a long time, I am also young (20) and still in college. These are all things girls claim they get flamed for on this (and other boards) but the truth is if you didn't act like a crazy person you wouldn't get yourself flamed. So when you ask for advice don't freak out when you get it, don't tell people where they can/cannot post, and don't plan your wedding before you are engaged. Looking at things in a day-dreaming way is fine but you really should focus on your relationship right now.


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  • jemmini6jemmini6 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_cant-not-knot?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:18feb03b-7069-49d8-913e-85240f81c74fPost:7a46d3f8-3f4c-43b5-af35-796849283d46">Can't Not Knot</a>:
    [QUOTE] and I love reading and replying to other girls' posts  <strong>Fine</strong>

    (as well as dress/ring/stuff "shopping") <strong>Browsing = fine     shopping = iffy</strong>

    Since I know I'm not getting engaged anytime soon.. do you think its silly or wrong to be searching for the perfect wedding I never got the first time?? <strong>this is the part where you ASKED for opinions.  people here are honest, they won't give you confirmation if they don't think the same thing.  as i've said, it's fine to browse/get idea, but "searching" is the same as planning and yes, we do think it is silly/wrong to plan a wedding when you aren't yet engaged.</strong>

    Its so hard cause I Can't Not Knot!
    Posted by LadyFace1021[/QUOTE]

    OP, you need to re-read your first post.  No one was attacking you, they were giving opinions.

    Coming back with defensive remarks and having your "friend" join just to back you up is just a one way ticket to actually get attacked.

    It is fine if you want to stay, no one is saying you can't, but just remember that you haven't exactly made a lot of friends here with how you've acted...
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  • PaigeMcCPaigeMcC member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_cant-not-knot?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:18feb03b-7069-49d8-913e-85240f81c74fPost:664b420f-b8df-4c77-85cb-12afbc56aef4">Re: Can't Not Knot</a>:
    [QUOTE]Paige- You make me smile.
    Posted by ekathleen684[/QUOTE]

    <div>Thanks! I try.</div><div>
    </div><div>Did you notice it's in a maple leaf bottle?  Canadian, eh!!</div>

    "Popular on the internetz..."
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    Paige I would like to profess my love for you and your brilliant mind. - breezerb
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  • ekathleen684ekathleen684
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_cant-not-knot?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:18feb03b-7069-49d8-913e-85240f81c74fPost:0998f02d-e4c2-40e0-b8f2-c8c44995c480">Re: Can't Not Knot</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Can't Not Knot : Thanks! I try. Did you notice it's in a maple leaf bottle?  Canadian, eh!!
    Posted by PaigeMcC[/QUOTE]

    Yes I did. :)
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  • LizzyTish88LizzyTish88 member
    Eighth Anniversary 2500 Comments 500 Love Its Name Dropper
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_cant-not-knot?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:18feb03b-7069-49d8-913e-85240f81c74fPost:809eb005-1282-47a0-811c-42b295b707db">Re: Can't Not Knot</a>:
    [QUOTE]Also sticky 
    Posted by PaigeMcC[/QUOTE]

    Paige.. This is what I needed today. Thank you!
    friends tv show funy
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  • Button5807Button5807
    2500 Comments Fourth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_cant-not-knot?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:18feb03b-7069-49d8-913e-85240f81c74fPost:7a46d3f8-3f4c-43b5-af35-796849283d46">Can't Not Knot</a>:
    [QUOTE]Since I know I'm not getting engaged anytime soon.. do you think its silly or wrong to be searching for the perfect wedding I never got the first time?? Its so hard cause I Can't Not Knot!
    Posted by LadyFace1021[/QUOTE]

    Yes I think it is both silly and wrong.

    Among many other things I'm inclined to give you a major side eye for comparing your very rushed 1st wedding to this somewhere in the future wedding and having them compete in your mind. That seems a bit shallow to me.
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    "but you're SO FUNNY, button! you're so funny i kind of want to crawl into your skin and wear it as my own. " - NarwhalYou, my dear, are the Queen of the Beebees. Here's a tiara - Oceana 
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  • Nat&PeteNat&Pete
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_cant-not-knot?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:18feb03b-7069-49d8-913e-85240f81c74fPost:99bfc3ff-7760-4f20-ab65-40d9492cf85d">Re: Can't Not Knot</a>:
    [QUOTE]If you don't like it take your toys and go play somewhere else.  I might suggest Snarky Brides, or Etiquette.  
    Posted by PaigeMcC[/QUOTE]

    <strong>Don't bother. These Mean Girls are all over the message boards here and will post about you and make fun of you behind your back.  if you don't use perfect punctuation....you get attacked.  If you express the fact that you are looking at ideas for your future wedding....you get attacked.  If you don't drink the kool aid...you get attacked.  If you ask for advice...you get attacked. 

    Just remember....what goes around, comes around so enjoy your dreaming about YOUR perfect wedding and ignore these Nasty Girls.  They are just looking to pick a fight.
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  • ekathleen684ekathleen684
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011



    We said nothing about her lack of the shift key use or the excessive periods.
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  • Button5807Button5807
    2500 Comments Fourth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_cant-not-knot?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:18feb03b-7069-49d8-913e-85240f81c74fPost:61007a08-d570-4340-9371-914d9af8d5bc">Re: Can't Not Knot</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Can't Not Knot : Don't bother. These Mean Girls are all over the message boards here and will post about you and make fun of you behind your back.
    Posted by Nat&Pete[/QUOTE]

    How do you post behind someone's back on a public forum?
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    "but you're SO FUNNY, button! you're so funny i kind of want to crawl into your skin and wear it as my own. " - NarwhalYou, my dear, are the Queen of the Beebees. Here's a tiara - Oceana 
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  • katanne9katanne9 member
    2500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_cant-not-knot?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:18feb03b-7069-49d8-913e-85240f81c74fPost:61007a08-d570-4340-9371-914d9af8d5bc">Re: Can't Not Knot</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Can't Not Knot : Don't bother. These Mean Girls are all over the message boards here and will post about you and make fun of you behind your back.  if you don't use perfect punctuation....you get attacked.  If you express the fact that you are looking at ideas for your future wedding....you get attacked.  If you don't drink the kool aid...you get attacked.  If you ask for advice...you get attacked.  Just remember....what goes around, comes around so enjoy your dreaming about YOUR perfect wedding and ignore these Nasty Girls.  They are just looking to pick a fight.
    Posted by Nat&Pete[/QUOTE]


    You know this in your long history of three posts?
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  • GreenPepperBurgerGreenPepperBurger
    2500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    May I suggest that the OP and her friends/AEs/validators/whatnot carry this down the "isle"?



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  • bethsmilesbethsmiles member
    10000 Comments Sixth Anniversary 500 Love Its First Answer
    edited December 2011
    Button - By putting your mean comments in the middle of your post containing freaking awesome advice that the BSC girls asked for but will ultimately ignore. Its the last place they would ever look...their brains just automatically block out all ideas/advice that makes sense.


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  • dwest2201dwest2201
    1000 Comments Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_cant-not-knot?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:18feb03b-7069-49d8-913e-85240f81c74fPost:15177748-5016-4fd7-91cd-31dfb9084673">Re: Can't Not Knot</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Can't Not Knot : How do you post behind someone's back on a public forum?
    Posted by Button5807[/QUOTE]


    Please enlighten me on this as well.


    P.S. Paige with the PIP of the maple syrup in a maple leaf bottle and posting "Eh" = best thread EVER! :)
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  • dwest2201dwest2201
    1000 Comments Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_cant-not-knot?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:18feb03b-7069-49d8-913e-85240f81c74fPost:d4885df0-79e9-4b69-9c8e-0b26e9eb3ef0">Re: Can't Not Knot</a>:
    [QUOTE]Button - By putting your mean comments in the middle of your post containing freaking awesome advice that the BSC girls asked for but will ultimately ignore. Its the last place they would ever look...their brains just automatically block out all ideas/advice that makes sense.
    Posted by bethsmiles[/QUOTE]

    Ah, I see.  Genius!
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  • Button5807Button5807
    2500 Comments Fourth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_cant-not-knot?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:18feb03b-7069-49d8-913e-85240f81c74fPost:d4885df0-79e9-4b69-9c8e-0b26e9eb3ef0">Re: Can't Not Knot</a>:
    [QUOTE]Button - By putting your mean comments in the middle of your post containing freaking awesome advice that the BSC girls asked for but will ultimately ignore. Its the last place they would ever look...their brains just automatically block out all ideas/advice that makes sense.
    Posted by bethsmiles[/QUOTE]


    LMAO
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    "but you're SO FUNNY, button! you're so funny i kind of want to crawl into your skin and wear it as my own. " - NarwhalYou, my dear, are the Queen of the Beebees. Here's a tiara - Oceana 
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  • Button5807Button5807
    2500 Comments Fourth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011

    image image image image 
    "but you're SO FUNNY, button! you're so funny i kind of want to crawl into your skin and wear it as my own. " - NarwhalYou, my dear, are the Queen of the Beebees. Here's a tiara - Oceana 
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  • **Mutley****Mutley**
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Button, I prefer




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  • run21run21 member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    FAIL.

    Next?
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  • Button5807Button5807
    2500 Comments Fourth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_cant-not-knot?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:18feb03b-7069-49d8-913e-85240f81c74fPost:ad667adf-8928-4a50-9b64-00e0b9dfc3cd">Re: Can't Not Knot</a>:
    [QUOTE]Button, I prefer
    Posted by **Mutley**[/QUOTE]

    That is fantastic.
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    "but you're SO FUNNY, button! you're so funny i kind of want to crawl into your skin and wear it as my own. " - NarwhalYou, my dear, are the Queen of the Beebees. Here's a tiara - Oceana 
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  • hetshuphetshup member
    2500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Guano is such a fun word. OP and all her fans, there is no kool-aide, there are Mimosas or Mojitos. The point is, we don't validate bad ideas. Those are bad ideas. I also won't recommend that you place your head in the oven.
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  • AnneAndJJAnneAndJJ
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Mimosas, mojitos, daquiris, and we can't forget SoBe! Kool-Aid, however, is a no go. Too sticky. 

    He pretty much had me at "hello".
    -- PS I agree with whatever Jeana said --
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  • zipis1zipis1 member
    Fourth Anniversary 500 Comments 5 Love Its Name Dropper
    edited December 2011
    I have that bottle, Paige! My old roommate bought me that syrup a few years ago (and it was GOOD syrup, I must say!), and I kept the bottle cuz it's purdy. Refilling it gets everything sticky though. Me, the counter, the bottle, BF, the dog, the...I'll stop there ;)

    Yes that's essentially all I feel like contributing to this fine convo. ...that, and I before I came to these boards I would feel a bit BSC for just browsing at stuff, and could never bring myself to save any ideas/pictures. I have no idea how people can take it any further and not see anything wrong with it.

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  • jeanacorinajeanacorina
    2500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Please don't post another person's photo/location/full name without their permission.

    Thanks.
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  • PaigeMcCPaigeMcC member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_cant-not-knot?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:18feb03b-7069-49d8-913e-85240f81c74fPost:07211a78-fa37-4f6b-9bd7-cf0f5cb57602">Re: Can't Not Knot</a>:
    [QUOTE]Please don't post another person's photo/location/full name without their permission. Thanks.
    Posted by jeanacorina[/QUOTE]

    Didn't do it!

    "Popular on the internetz..."
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    Paige I would like to profess my love for you and your brilliant mind. - breezerb
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  • saltlovespeppersaltlovespepper
    First Comment
    edited December 2011
    Mrs. Mutley,
    You have a cute "badge" for everything. And it's awesome :)
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  • jilly2121jilly2121
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    wow as a lurker on the knot who isnt engaged yet but close to being engaged (bf bought the ring) its suprises me how mean people are to each other on the internet. Everyone on here is downright vicious and hurtful and is attacking for no reason. You are all judging this girl that you dont even know! If she were standing in front of you would you be this mean? I hope when I do get engaged and move onto the other blogs there arent a bunch of mean girls waiting to attack me too!
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  • NarwhalNarwhal
    2500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_cant-not-knot?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:18feb03b-7069-49d8-913e-85240f81c74fPost:e4b54720-c083-4451-8c2e-463e532fde29">Re: Can't Not Knot</a>:
    [QUOTE]wow as a lurker on the knot who isnt engaged yet but close to being engaged (bf bought the ring) its suprises me how mean people are to each other on the internet. Everyone on here is downright vicious and hurtful and is attacking for no reason. You are all judging this girl that you dont even know! If she were standing in front of you would you be this mean? I hope when I do get engaged and move onto the other blogs there arent a bunch of mean girls waiting to attack me too!
    Posted by jilly2121[/QUOTE]

    I can assure you, if you keep up with your "WHERE IS THE RING" impatient attitude, there will be.  Don't you worry your looney little head over that.
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  • leia1979leia1979 member
    2500 Comments Fifth Anniversary 100 Love Its Name Dropper
    edited December 2011
    The beebees always make it sound like we're just lying in wait, sharpening our pitchforks, prepared to attack the next newbie who dares to post. It's kind of an awesome image (in my mind, at least) even though it's so far from the truth.

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  • hetshuphetshup member
    2500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_cant-not-knot?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:18feb03b-7069-49d8-913e-85240f81c74fPost:3a0bdd06-1016-469b-91df-a4c9b313a22e">Re: Can't Not Knot</a>:
    [QUOTE]The beebees always make it sound like we're just lying in wait, sharpening our pitchforks, prepared to attack the next newbie who dares to post. It's kind of an awesome image (in my mind, at least) even though it's so far from the truth.
    Posted by leia1979[/QUOTE]

    <div>
    </div><div>We're like the angry hoard. A hoard of hoars. </div>
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  • bethsmilesbethsmiles member
    10000 Comments Sixth Anniversary 500 Love Its First Answer
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_cant-not-knot?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:18feb03b-7069-49d8-913e-85240f81c74fPost:3a0bdd06-1016-469b-91df-a4c9b313a22e">Re: Can't Not Knot</a>:
    [QUOTE]The beebees always make it sound like we're just lying in wait, sharpening our pitchforks, prepared to attack the next newbie who dares to post. It's kind of an awesome image (in my mind, at least) even though it's so far from the truth.
    Posted by leia1979[/QUOTE]
    Wait...you guys aren't doing that?! damn! *throws down pitchfork* and I just finished sharpening.


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