Should I ask this bridesmaid to step down?

Re: Should I ask this bridesmaid to step down?

• mandy1122 member

  

  February 2012

  I had a similar situation with a bridesmaid and what it came down to is I wanted people around me who were going to be there to enjoy the whole process and have fun with me.  End of story.  With that being said I think a bridesmaid should want to be there and help you with things.  I don't care what anyone says about how they just need to buy the dress and show up ...really? How many brides would have liked a friend to do just that. (I wouldn't call them much of a friend)  Anyway I kicked a girl out because I was not enjoying the moments bc I was worry about what she would say/do or not do.  It was the best choice I made.  I was not going to feel uncomfortable on my wedding day/days leading up to it just because someone said oh you cant kick a girl out. 

  Do what you feel is right and will make you happy!!

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• Leilanithor member

  

  March 2012

  If it will make your day easier and the time leading up the wedding less stressful, then by all means do what you want and ask her to step down.  You will hurt her by asking her this, but in the end it is your day and your time, and if she is making this hard for you then ask her to step down.  Yeah you asked her to be in the wedding, but that doesn't give you the obligation to have her remain in it if she is causing you so much stress.  You already have enough drama and stuff to deal with for the wedding, you don't need a person that is supposed to be there for you adding anymore to it.  You're not the bad guy, you're just sticking up for yourself, and nothing is wrong with that.

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