October 2013 Weddings

Bachelorette Party

I have 4 bridemaids, including my MOH. Then I would like my mom to be there, maybe FMIL. The issue is, even though I love all my girls, they are very dramatic. Nights out with them turn into drama-fests and I can see issues arising. We are keeping it low key- baseball game and then maybe out to a bar (not long though, I don't drink much but I know that they would like to). 

Issue is I really don't want to have to referee the drama. Yes, I know they should all be adults. But knowing some of them, they will want to be silly and act like jerkfaces.

I really only want my mom and two of my girls there. Because of this drama crap. WWYD?
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Re: Bachelorette Party

  • My advice is to just show up like you are supposed to.  It's a party thrown and planned by your BM's and in your honor.  It's in poor taste to ask that certain people not be invited.  EIther decline all together or go and be gracious that they took the time to do this for you.  
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  • Ditto what PPs said.

     

  • Sorry about the late post, I had a bad week that didn't allow for a whole lot of screen time.

    My MOH is throwing it, with the help of my mom. But they don't have contact with any of my BMs so they asked me to get a headcount. 

    In the end, I reached out to all the girls to get an idea who would even be interested. All but one would want to attend, so I just passed on the info to my MOH. It's up to them to figure out the rest. 
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