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Wedding Etiquette Forum

Received Gifts

Z&Abunney

Z&Abunney

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August 2010 in Wedding Etiquette Forum

We are starting to get gifts in the mail and our wedding is in 29 days. What is protocol when you get checks. Do you cash them or wait until the wedding day. I feel like it would be rude to cash them, but at the same time budgeting their check books might be a little annoying for a month. what do you think?

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Re: Received Gifts

andyandhillary member

August 2010

You cash them and send the TY right away but do not use the cash until after the wedding.

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brilibby4 member

August 2010

Cash them but don't use the money until after the wedding!

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twilight.rose member

August 2010

Ditto PPs. That way the giver's accounting isn't screwed up in any way.

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banana468 member

August 2010

Send a TY note and deposit a day or two after you send the TY note. Don't spend until you're married.

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missy68

August 2010

Banana, your baby bump is adorable!

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frenchy730 member

August 2010

Deposit them right away. The gifters will appreciate it.

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