A response to an OP that is 20 weeks pregnant and just found out baby daddy is engaged:
You asked if there were other stories that were relevant. My SO of 4 years and I found out that we were pregnant in January. He begs me to get an abortion and I impolitely refuse. End of February I find out that he has a weeks old baby at home... With his wife... ??? ... ??? ... NOW he keeps telling me that he wants to make a family with me... He made a huge mistake with her... But he can't leave her now because at his age marriage is all about a business transaction. He doesn't want to lose everything that he has ever worked for in a divorce of a marriage that has not lasted now more than 2 years! Wow!!! Really!?!? But he wants to be with me... But he can't leave her... But he wants to be with me... But... I wonder if he knows polygamy is illegal in all 50 states... Hmmm!
1. How can one be with someone for 4 years and not have the "what if" pregnancy talk to see if you are on the same page?
2. HowTF can you have no clue that they are married??? really, what is it that these people do...I know they can't all be super smooth airline pilots with 3 different lives like the Lifetime movies.