I just found out that my sister (MOH) is emailing out an evite to everyone for my bridal shower. My first reaction was that I thought that it was a bit tacky and informal considering the occasion... and I'm wondering if I'm overreacting or not. I'm a bit torn. My whole bridal party is coming in from out of state. They're throwing me a shower, an out of town bachelorette weekend and spending plenty of money just being a part of my wedding. I know that they understood the financial commitment they were making when they agreed to be a part of my wedding, but part of me feels like I should just let this slide, since I know it would just be another expense for them, and it's just a shower invite. I honestly don't know if my sister is also planning on mailing an invite also, but I would think it would be confusing if she did two modes of invite, so I'm assuming she's not. I didn't specifially ask though.
So ladies, I'd love some advice on how I should feel about this. I'm kind of hoping that you will tell me to snap out of it and let it go, but I just don't know what's really appropriate. I don't really feel okay telling them they should spend more money and send out invitations, so I'm not sure there's much I can do about the situation... should I just let it go? TIA!