*foot stomp* NO NO NO....grrrr *Warning: Vent enclosed*

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• jaycee7389

  

  July 2011 edited December 2011

  Can you CN this? I got a little lost..my mind is mush because I've been working on a project all day.

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• IrishDreamer member

  

  July 2011 edited December 2011

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_foot-stomp-nogrrrr-warning-vent-enclosed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:a5e5996a-f428-4429-bc9d-e73f9e8c2334Post:e9afabba-6cb6-479b-9423-6d3899b71e45">Re: *foot stomp* NO NO NO....grrrr *Warning: Vent enclosed*</a>:
  [QUOTE]Can you CN this? I got a little lost..my mind is mush because I've been working on a project all day.
  Posted by jaycee7389[/QUOTE]
  
  CN:
  Bossman and Ex-PM got into huge verbal fight - police called, escorted off premises - shiittastical event ending in PM becoming EX.
  
  Bossman and Ex-PM need to talk because Ex-PM effed up big on some projects
  
  Bossman and Ex-PM talked for about 45 minutes, Ex-PM made BossMan feel bad, and now BossMan is contemplating hiring back Ex-PM into same position, the one that I was told I was getting (along with a big raise)
  
  Hope that helps a little bit

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• jaycee7389

  

  July 2011 edited December 2011

  Yes it did. That is complete BS if he is going to offer you a job and then change his mind and give it back. I hope you still get your job!
  
  Becunning posted a funny thread beneath yours if you want something to laugh at..or you can always visit memebase.

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• CCO2012

  

  July 2011 edited December 2011

  Ugh... This sucks! I hope everything works out! I honestly don't know what to say though.

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• IrishDreamer member

  

  July 2011 edited December 2011

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_foot-stomp-nogrrrr-warning-vent-enclosed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:a5e5996a-f428-4429-bc9d-e73f9e8c2334Post:5642b6ae-78ed-4ada-ad72-7bc22913598f">Re: *foot stomp* NO NO NO....grrrr *Warning: Vent enclosed*</a>:
  [QUOTE]Yes it did. That is complete BS if he is going to offer you a job and then change his mind and give it back. I hope you still get your job! Becunning posted a funny thread beneath yours if you want something to laugh at..or you can always visit memebase. :)
  Posted by jaycee7389[/QUOTE]
  
  I still have my OM job if he does - but the PM job would be such a huge step for me in my career...and I would be good at it! I just need the more technical side of it - which would be a cakewalk to learn, plus I'm a quick study.
  
  I did check out B's thread...it was hilarious...definitely made me feel better :)

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• ravenray member

  

  July 2011 edited December 2011

  Oh that sucks!    Not cool Boss man!  I will pray that that doesn't happen.  Can you talk to him some more about why this wouldn't be a good option?  And show him how much the office would hate that?

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• IrishDreamer member

  

  July 2011 edited December 2011

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_foot-stomp-nogrrrr-warning-vent-enclosed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:a5e5996a-f428-4429-bc9d-e73f9e8c2334Post:d354efb2-46fa-4e86-addd-c2e738afde77">Re: *foot stomp* NO NO NO....grrrr *Warning: Vent enclosed*</a>:
  [QUOTE]That's really frustrating, especially since he planned on making you PM.  Is there an HR department you can discuss this with?  If Ex-PM makes everyone miserable, they should know before he's hired back.  And they would definitely be on your side if you were promised a position, and then had it taken away.   If you don't have an HR department, you might need to go to your boss's boss with other coworkers and state your concerns.  It sucks to go above someone's head like that, but it's worth it if the company will suffer because of Boss's decisions.
  Posted by yaga13[/QUOTE]
  
  I am the HR department, and he is the President/Owner lol. We are a small business. Our entire company is Me, Bossman, 8 installers, and 2 sales reps lol

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• marleylikeair member

  

  July 2011 edited December 2011

  WTF. He promised you the job and is now looking at reneging?! That is shitty. I really hope you can have a little sit-down with BossMan when things are a bit calmer and make sure he is considering the fact that you also are deserving of some compassion here. You've done a great job and you shouldn't get the shaft.

  
  
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• kaitlynmichelle member

  

  July 2011 edited December 2011

  That sounds so frustrating.  Hopefully Bossman comes to his senses and doesn't hire the guy back.  Sounds like EX-PM should stay EX.  You think he'd realize this as you said EX-PM was escorted off the property, and messed up on projects.  I wouldn't want someone like that working there.

  
  

  Keep us posted, I hope it all works out for you!!

  
  

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• IrishDreamer member

  

  July 2011 edited December 2011

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_foot-stomp-nogrrrr-warning-vent-enclosed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:a5e5996a-f428-4429-bc9d-e73f9e8c2334Post:d94b8bdf-ba1a-4f47-913d-8713ba86fcad">Re: *foot stomp* NO NO NO....grrrr *Warning: Vent enclosed*</a>:
  [QUOTE]That sounds so frustrating.  Hopefully Bossman comes to his senses and doesn't hire the guy back.  Sounds like EX-PM should stay EX.  You think he'd realize this as you said EX-PM was escorted off the property, and messed up on projects.  I wouldn't want someone like that working there. Keep us posted, I hope it all works out for you!! I don't have a really funny LOLcat but I have a cute one:
  Posted by kaitlynmichelle[/QUOTE]
  
  :) That made me smile, thank you.
  
  BossMan normally listens to me when I say things, because I don't say things lightly... But his big heart sometimes gets in the way... *sigh* He's supposed to have an answer today or at the very latest, this weekend...

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• desertsun member

  

  July 2011 edited December 2011

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_foot-stomp-nogrrrr-warning-vent-enclosed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:a5e5996a-f428-4429-bc9d-e73f9e8c2334Post:f1a01cea-45ac-4f7e-8380-cf264c9f05de">Re: *foot stomp* NO NO NO....grrrr *Warning: Vent enclosed*</a>:
  [QUOTE]That super sucks. I am sorry. I think that maybe it would help to write down your (valid) concerns about ex-PM's rehiring and what effect that would have on the company. Your coworkers could do that, too, if they know about this possibility and want to voice their concerns. You could also write down the reasons you think you'd be a good PM, the reasons you guys likely discussed because he was promoting you.  Do you have the fact that he was promoting you in writing, even in email? I'd use that you your advantage, if you do.<strong> If he does decide to be stupid and hire ex-PM back, I'd at the very least demand a higher salary. </strong>
  Posted by LivLeighton[/QUOTE]
  
  This!
  
  I'm sorry you're going through such a stressful situation, Irish. :( Just remember that you can only control yourself, so voice your concerns and then try not to stress too much.

  
  
  
  

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• kaitlynmichelle member

  

  July 2011 edited December 2011

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_foot-stomp-nogrrrr-warning-vent-enclosed?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:a5e5996a-f428-4429-bc9d-e73f9e8c2334Post:f1a01cea-45ac-4f7e-8380-cf264c9f05de">Re: *foot stomp* NO NO NO....grrrr *Warning: Vent enclosed*</a>:
  [QUOTE]That super sucks. I am sorry. I think that maybe it would help to write down your (valid) concerns about ex-PM's rehiring and what effect that would have on the company. Your coworkers could do that, too, if they know about this possibility and want to voice their concerns. You could also write down the reasons you think you'd be a good PM, the reasons you guys likely discussed because he was promoting you.  <strong>Do you have the fact that he was promoting you in writing, even in email? I'd use that you your advantage, if you do. If he does decide to be stupid and hire ex-PM back, I'd at the very least demand a higher salary. </strong>
  Posted by LivLeighton[/QUOTE]<div>
  Liv is wise.  If you have some kind of record of him telling you that you were up for a promotion that could help.  I agree, I would be asking for a raise if he does hire ex-PM back because if he was considering promoting you, he obviously thinks you are a good fit for a higher-paying role.</div><div>
  </div><div>If your coworkers also think that ex-PM should not come back, they should be telling Bossman as well.  I don't really know the best way to go about doing that, but if Bossman knows that there are several staff that are concerned with his return, it might make him rethink hiring him back.</div><div>
  </div><div>Or send him to NEY, we'll set him straight :P</div><div>
  
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• Peaseblossom55 mod

  

  July 2011 edited December 2011

  I"m so sorry to hear!  This really sucks and is so unfair.  See what happens or go in on Monday and have a talk about where things are going.  I hope this works out in your favor though.

  
  

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